Great to see you working hard to find help with money and cures to help us all
Hey Big, difficult to see who you are talking to, in these kind of "public" threads. But since your answer follows mine directly.
I have Many advice's I can give you to help yourself with money and the cure is within yourself, for all.
I don't know you so, don't assume that this is pointed toward you, I have no idea what you are going trough. And this answer is nonobstant where you live too. And would repeat the same thing for everyone.
You might have no idea how much you will have to work your A** out before you can prove to any boss that you worth more than your pay.
You might have no idea how much you will have to search for a boss like that.
You certainly have no idea what it will take after to make sure he thinks you worth your weight in gold.
People are seriously letting their kids up to 30 years old today, playing legos in their basement... pulling boogers off their noses... Before making them hauling it.
At 16 I had "my car" going to school, 2 jobs (one fun and another, not so much.) Was paying rent in my parent house.
And was piling up to get my own.
I'm a real old style Gen X and was kicked in the butt...
But at some point. You cant take all your life, to decide what your going to do with it.