Had a rather sad experience a bit earlier tonight. There is a guy in my apartments that served in the Marines during some bad times in Honduras. I really don't know how severe but he suffered a head injury and also suffers from PTSD. On top of that he is also a heavy drinker likely, at least partially, due to the PTSD. Tonight I was outside and he came out suffering a crisis level bout of PTSD to the point that his whole body was shaking and he was crying. At one point I had to grab his arm to keep him from falling.
Long story made short I got him somewhat calmed down and convinced him to allow a cop to be called to help and get him to the local hospital from where he will probably be transferred to the Veteran's Admin hospital which is mainly a mental facility.
Now let's talk about the cop.... After it was all said and done I called the police department to report this cop but not in a bad way. The officer was REALLY awesome in how he handled the situation. He treated this man with total kindness and understanding always speaking softly and showing a lot of empathy. I called the police department to log a compliment on this officer's actions, not to complain.
I almost didn't post this but decided to do so more in relation to the cop than the guy with the issue. Cops tend to get a bad rap and there ARE always some bad apples in the bushel but that is true with any profession. My step father was a fireman and I knew just about all the cops in my home town and partied with a lot of them. Yes there are some bad cops but the vast majority are just people that have the guts to take on a job that at any time could cost their life to help and protect a community. So if you get pulled over for speeding or something don't get an attitude with the officer Just smile and say that you will try to do better in the future. After all it was you that messed up, not the cop. Actually you might be surprised at how many times this kind of positive attitude toward the cop will end up with you getting a warning instead of a ticket.
Just don't ever lie to a cop. They are trained to read body language and pretty much know if you are or are not being honest. As an example of this I will offer my own personal experience... Must have been 9-10 years ago but I was pretty toasted and out of smokes. I headed to the local Walgreens to get more smokes and fully intended to take the less than 5-6 minute walk to the store. "Muscle memory" kicked in and I got in my car instead. Another customer in the store saw that I was obviously drunk and called the cops. When I left the store cops were waiting for me. The officer in charge in all this was Corporal Karen Rogers, a really good cop and person. Not really sure if she could have gotten me for a DUI but, at the least, I was open game for a minimum of public intoxication. She let me go saying that she would come back and check and if my car was not still in the parking lot she was going to come and get me. Later I called the police department requesting that she give me a call when she was able as I wanted to ask a question. Something like 30 minutes later she called and I asked her why she let me go. Her response was that she let me off because I didn't try to scam her and was totally honest.