I like posts for the same reason,
@Chad. The issue is that they have made a competition out of it and it fills up my notifications. I don’t want to stop receiving completely. Some are valuable. But getting 8 likes from the same person in my post is annoying. That shows they are just going down and liking everything. It makes our like option mean nothing. You also don’t get as many as I do as you are not on as much or commenting as much. I am called on for things which is fine but increases my comments. It was never an issue until the younger group joined the forum. There’s no prize and no reason for the childish competition. End of my rant!
And now I'm frightened to like anything, or make a light-hearted comment, in case I wee-wee someone off.
I've had some lovely jokey conversations on here, and have "liked" other people's friendly conversations. rarely has someone taken something the "wrong way", but when a comment has caused an unintended reaction an apology has always been forthcoming and friendly relations re-established.
This is life - sometimes we say or do something which is misunderstood, or we misunderstand someone else's remarks or actions. We can't spend all of our time tip-toeing around things - as I say, this is part of life, and learning how to deal with it, and settling differences amicably is a bloomin' useful life skill! As is being able to apologise for something we've done wrong. Nothing wrong with learning this on a friendly forum.
And I will say, that sometimes I've liked posts because someone has made a comment which has seemed to be ignored and I just want them to know that someone has read it and appreciated their contribution.
I don't think any of us are deliberately nasty to one another. If we can't make any light-hearted, jokey comments then the forum will lose a lot of its joy - we just need to keep them "cheeky" and not mean.
However, I won't comment on your posts in future Deanasue, as in your role as moderator you will get more than the average, and I understand you not wanting to plough through them.