my new pics

[The-Wolf]

All you need is love, love is all you need

John Lennon

 

[rykitten]

That is not my words.  That is the words of the person that created that site.

No one said they were your words. Only that you had "suggested" that's how you felt by leaving a link for the rest of us to read. If you don't want people to assume you support the opinions of links you post, especially when they are derogatory, be sure to put something like Or "Not necessarily my opinions."

Read his other pages and you will understand him.  He does not mean things like that seriously, that is just the way he voices his opinions.  The entire site is only saying that he doesn't like the goth culture.  He just says it in a way to induce shock and get your attention.  You would know that had to you seen any of the rest of his site.

I've been to his site before. You can interpret his opinions any way you'd like and I will interpret them my own way. FYI - I have been to his site before. I think from a link you had posted a few months ago. Don't care for it, probably won't go back

 

[IHaveAFishPond]

All you need is love, love is all you need

John Lennon

All you need is to love John Lennon?

 

[The-Wolf]

All you need is love, love is all you need

John Lennon

All you need is to love John Lennon?

No its a song. Words by John Lennon and music by Paul McCartney.

some more of the song

Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.
There's nothing you can do that can't be done.
Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game
It's easy.
There's nothing you can make that can't be made.
No one you can save that can't be saved.
Nothing you can do but you can learn how to be in time
It's easy.
All you need is love, all you need is love,
All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

 

[-cAtFiSh-]

vixen i love the way u have done your make-up! i do mine like that sometimes but only when im bothered. i chose the black and white pic btw.

 

[-cAtFiSh-]

And to your point about dressing goth making people feel better, well that has been proven wrong.

i dress in all black all the time (sometimes i throw a bit of colour in). it makes me feel better, thats why i do it.

 

[IHaveAFishPond]

All you need is love, love is all you need

John Lennon

All you need is to love John Lennon?

No its a song. Words by John Lennon and music by Paul McCartney.

some more of the song

Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.
There's nothing you can do that can't be done.
Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game
It's easy.
There's nothing you can make that can't be made.
No one you can save that can't be saved.
Nothing you can do but you can learn how to be in time
It's easy.
All you need is love, all you need is love,
All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

I know mate, I was joking.

 

[Nauplii]

hey catfish, thanks... i too only will do it when im bothered, i like putting the make-up on in different styles... whether it look natural or not...
i like a change

 

[jacblades]

http/maddox.xmission.com/gothics.html

hahaha Amen! i cant believe lmo and i actually agree on something...
theres this card game called cheesegoth. that link reminds me of it.

i hate the goth trend. i myself used to be "one" but later i realized how lame i was.
i think the only thing that defines goth is clothes.

vixen you look so much better without the cheesy makeup! as all 'goths' do!

when my mom asked why i would wear ridiculous clothes and facepaint, i would say because i wanted to be different and she said, "no-you want to be just the same as all of those other 'goths'"-and i realized she was right. by being a "nonconformist" i was really just conforming to another standard.
kind of like the episode of southpark (the parody of 'you got served') where kyle asks the goths to be part of his dance team and they say no. but one of them says, "im so nonconformist that im going to conform" or something like that.
and they were all gothserved!

vixen-i dont mean to offend you but please dont waste your life being part of the 'goth' trend. i wasted 3 years on spike collars, facepaint, black hair dye and clothes from hot topic and i can honestly say those were some of the worst years of my life. i hung out with not-so-good influences and had an awful outlook on life.

dont wait till you are saying, "if only i could go back..."

 

[Fawke]

Black and White deffo, i always think they look more artistic...... but thats just me......

Just to follow trend really, your a good looking girl..... both different looks reflect that.....

Just out of interest, how old are you Vixen? (im not hitting on you honest, just wanted to know in relation to the goth look)

 

[Apopli]

Goth, punk, and other ways of expressing yourself as a teenager isn't so much a way of expression, as a way to find others.

When I was a teenager, I never adopted a single style. I'd wear some trendy clothes, sometimes i'd adopt a very "goth" look, only without the makeup, othertimes I'd look like a little skater-punk. It was a fully psychological thing.

When I first started high school, my mother was still buying all my clothes for me, and she had me in the trendy "hip" clothes. This attracted the cheerleaders, the guys into sports, the rich, snooty people who could have nothing to do with anybody who shopped at WalMart. These people had VERY rich extravagant families who would go away to exotic places leaving their children in the care of an in-home maid/nanny.

That winter I took up skiing, which inevidably lead me to try snowboarding. I cut my hair, to a short "wash and wear" kinda style, I shopped at the "skate shops", which carried skiing/snowboarding gear in the winter, and made friends with skater/snowboarder types. I lost the trendy clothes, because chunky heel shoes and skirts didn't work for me anymore, and lost all my trendy friends.

My best friend at the time ended up dressing goth over the spring - it was a slow transition for her, but by the following school year, she was dressing like the "goth" stereotype. Suddenly everybody we were once close to hated her (and she was pretty popular for a while), and other goth/punk types, and I by now was a full-fledged labeled punk. My hair was always wild colors, my wallet was always hooked to a chain, I had the baggy pants and cute baby t-shirts advertising various skate companies, or dishwashing liquids, or with odd messages, such as "I steal music off the internet" (back BEFOR everybody else was wearing this stuff).

Goths and punks occasionally mingled and everybody else hated us. There were a few bad apples, but you see that in EVERY group of people (especially in high school) weither they dress "normal" or otherwise. I'd have to say, though, that I found the goth/punk groups to be the least judgemental and the most harmless. Most of them were pretty fun-loving and not at all depressing.

Well eventually we all went to college, or got real jobs and none of us still dress like that. But that's because now we don't have to dress a certain way to meet a certain type of person. Mannor of dress was just a way to make friends at that age. We had quite a few people who were goth/punk who hung out with us for a while, didn't like it, then the next day were dressed totally differently and hated goths.

Ahh the psychology of high school. I was making my psych thesis on it, but due to medical problems I wasn't able to finish that year of school.

 

[Nauplii]

ok i will say this once more.... i dont usually wear make-up for ive seen wat wearing make-up all the time does to your face in the future.... i am NOTHING like a typical AT ALL, i wear colours, i am happy with my bf and ive actually only been to ONE concert.
I prefer to wear baggy trousers, as opposed to short 'belt' skirts or tight trousers..... i choose to wear black because it suits me better than red or blue... i like purple, even lilac so i am not stuck in black
i do not smoke(never have done) ive never taken drugs and i do not drink...
i like the gothic look in say furniture and wine glasses and ornaments but i do not dye my hair black and have JUST black make-up(not that i have BRIGHT red make-up because i dont like it) I like what i wear and i varie what that is. I dont go out to clubs like the usual 'tarts' < young girls.. and i do not wish to present myself.
Why are you guys making SUCH a BIG deal out of this
I really do not appreciate ppl stereotyping me because frankly i hate it.

ALL i asked was peoples opinions on the PICTURES!!!!!!!!!
nothing else! i did not ask what you think about goths or on what i was wearing in the picture... i just normally asked(if normal is the word) what do you like best as a picture ?? the colour or black and white!

im sure you guys wouldnt have had a problem of saying which you liked best if i had shown you say a picture of a cat now!

now JUST LEAVE IT








fawke... im 16

 

[The-Wolf]

LOOK, BACK OFF EVERYONE!

 

[jacblades]

hey im just trying to help.
i dont want you making the same mistakes i did.
im just saying i was so much happier once i wasnt a 'goth'
i didnt drink, smoke, or do drugs, have sex or go to clubs. but all of my friends did. (well i smoked a few cigarettes and every halloween we went ot the rocky horror picture show which was at a bar)
even though i didnt do any of those things, i missed out on a lot of things because i was hanging out with the wrong crowd.

to answer your question-personally i dont like either of the pics. they are too blurry and too shadowy. you cant really see your facial features. the natural looking one is better though.

hey danio-opinions are welcome here. no one is doing any flaming.

 

[3fsh]

Vixen:

I prefer the black and white picture... very artistic looking. I also think that you are a beautiful person in general, no matter what you wear. It's what's on the INSIDE that matters... and you love fish so you must be a good person... lol jk!