Whoa....hardcore.
Where did all that come from?
There may be the slightest chance that people dress like that because they like it and it makes them feel good about themselves. Its their personality shining through. If 'goths' and that were bothered about what other people thought they wouldnt dress the way they do.
I cant see how it changes a person. I bet if you bothered to get to know Vixen before posting stuff like that your opinion may be different.
But if a person is close minded enough to say stuff like that in the first place and then try and make it 'ok' by doing it on a public forum then the chances are pretty slim.