Alice B
Fish Herder
May he rest in peace. Thank you @AbbeysDad for letting us know
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Unfortunately, that makes three of us... And I'm still dealing with it for 12 years now. I was hoping that Byron would be blessed with recovering from it. Sadly, that didn't happen. And while I know that I can't do much for him, I've decided to light a candle for him at our basilica.Byron and I also shared one other thing- we both dealt with cancer.
An article that was referenced spells the last name as Hosking? Also, an obituary for him may be here: John Byron Hosking obituaryI have been dreading this since I first saw the post by AbbeysDad and am sorry for taking so long to post here. I have always had problems dealing with death and the end of anything, and I haven't been able to think of what to write, so I will just write how I feel. First off my condolences to Byron's family and friends, and @AbbeysDad who was one of Byron's friends. I hope AbbeysDad and all Byron's family and other friends are holding up as well as can be expected at this time.
Thankyou to AbbeysDad for keeping us informed about Byron's declining health and finally posting this thread about his death. It's not a nice thing for anyone to have to do but you did it well and I'm sure Byron is thankful for you letting us all know. As unpleasant as it is, I'm glad you posted it and we can say farewell to a great member of the fish forum community. Thankyou AbbeysDad.
I never met Byron in person but we talked online here and I'm sure I would have liked him in person just as I liked him on the forum. He was extremely knowledgeable when it came to fish keeping and in particular, keeping South American fishes from the Amazon and surrounding rivers and tributaries. He knew about plants, water quality, feeding fish, and most things fish related. I consider him a brilliant man with a great mind who would help out on the forum just because he wanted to help people keep their fish better. He put the fish first and he did it in a way that didn't make people feel bad about not treating the fish as well as they could. He even taught me a few things about freshwater angelfish and there aren't many people that can teach me anything about fish keeping.
We started keeping fish in a similar way many years ago, with both of us getting small aquariums and struggling to keep fish alive. This was due to shops being unwilling to volunteer information to new fish keepers back in the day. If you didn't know how to keep fish, they weren't going to tell you how. But with patience and persistence we both worked out how to keep fish. Byron has happily passed on his learned knowledge of fish keeping to many people here and their fish and plants have flourished because of his information.
I second @Alice B idea to put Byron's informative threads into a memorial subsection or even just a sticky at the top of the page so people can have easy access to his information. It would take a bit of work from the moderators but would put a lot of useful info in one spot. And if Byron's family doesn't mind, I would like Byron's research papers added to it (assuming we can get them). I'm sure he has written some truly inciteful papers on fish that could provide a lot of knowledge for a lot more people in the future.
With tears in my eyes and a box of tissues nearby, I write this for you.
To Byron Hoskins, I bid yee farewell and hope you are on a new journey in a much better place. Perhaps in an area with lots of rivers, creeks and tributaries surrounded by trees and flowers, with vast numbers of undescribed fish in the water. You have a nice house somewhere nearby with a fish room (or two) and you can collect all the fish you want and study them in the aquariums at your new home. I will miss you as will many others here and am saddened by your passing. You were a good man and someone I considered a friend and an equal when it came to fish keeping. So long my friend, you will be in my prayers along with the other people that have touched me during my life.
https://spca.bc.ca/locations/maple-ridge/In lieu of flowers, donations to the Maple Ridge SPCA would be greatly appreciated.