Thank you so much for finding this! Nothing has been posted on his Facebook and I’ve been scouring the internet for funeral details so I can go
Byron Hoskins RIP
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I've never had a face to put to the name until now.
Thank you for posting that. I left a note for his family.
Well now I'm confused. Throwing this to @AbbeysDad for answers.
AbbeysDad, is that link for our Byron from the fish forum?
If yes, why is the spelling different and did he use his middle name when writing articles?
I think a lot of people play with spellings and locations because the internet is what it is. My actual family name isn't "E", and yours isn't "T", right? Deep down, I know you're Colin Tyrannosaurus. We leave it close because we aren't that worried about being "known", but they're still stage names. I expect Byron worked the same way. Instead of a completely unrelated user name, he stayed close to who he was. But I can tell you from the days I wrote commercially on fish, people find you and you do get 3 AM phone calls from other time zones. Complete real names can be traced, and some people like doing that. You have to protect your privacy a bit.
The obituary in post #29 is very likely to be the same Byron. Look at the signature in any of Byron's posts (there's a sticky in Tropical Discussion to make it easy to find one of his posts) which says "Byron Hosking, BMus, MA". Byron himself spelled his surname as Hosking and the obituary says he had a degree and masters in musicology.
I wish I'd known he played the church organ. So does my elder son.
I wish I'd known he played the church organ. So does my elder son.
TwoTankAmin
Fish Connoisseur
Well, Byron was a fish additct which the obit mentions, He struggled with cancer to which he finally succumbed, and the Obit mentions that. He is from Canada and it it a Canadian info site. So it would have to be an elaborate con job. And they sure had a easy to use set-up to make donations via CC or Paypal. I wondered if it might not be legit and decided the odds on that seemed pretty poor.
I made a decent size donation but not insane enough to change how I live as a result. I normally find a good cause, often an individual in trouble, to make my annual donation to. This year I did not wait for Xmas.
My family is not religious and we don't have funerals. When my dad passed we asked folks donate to our local hospice Org. They were here for oth him and my mother eventually. Byron never asked the members here for anything for himself, he just helped us all become better fish keepers and hopefully, better people. So My donation was insignificant compared to that. I have to assume that he was the one who requested those donation for a cause he supported.
The odd thing is that I got a nice thank-you email from the shelter with a story about a specific dog, the kind the donation would help:
I think anybody who can make even a small donation to the shelter will be doing two things, helping animals in need and honoring Byron's memory. It sure made me feel a lot better than just sitting around feeling sad.
edited to add the word "Odds"
I made a decent size donation but not insane enough to change how I live as a result. I normally find a good cause, often an individual in trouble, to make my annual donation to. This year I did not wait for Xmas.
My family is not religious and we don't have funerals. When my dad passed we asked folks donate to our local hospice Org. They were here for oth him and my mother eventually. Byron never asked the members here for anything for himself, he just helped us all become better fish keepers and hopefully, better people. So My donation was insignificant compared to that. I have to assume that he was the one who requested those donation for a cause he supported.
The odd thing is that I got a nice thank-you email from the shelter with a story about a specific dog, the kind the donation would help:
I think anybody who can make even a small donation to the shelter will be doing two things, helping animals in need and honoring Byron's memory. It sure made me feel a lot better than just sitting around feeling sad.
edited to add the word "Odds"
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I’m imagining that he always went by his middle name as John was also his fathers name and that would get confusing.
Oh my goodness the dog was named fish
TwoTankAmin
Fish Connoisseur
I saw that and was pretty amazed. It seemed like karma at work.
My surname starts with a T and Colin is my first name. I don't use full surnames on the internet but first letter is fine.
It's now done.
Byron Hosking Legacy
Byron Hosking was a long standing member of the forum. He was very knowledgeable about many aspects of fish keeping with many years spent in the field researching and was always willing to share his knowledge. Many members of the forum have benefited from his expertise. Sadly Byron passed away...
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I think I avoided the forum for a while partly because I was dreading this news, knowing it was coming - and I didn't think I could handle it - and I was right.
@Byron I hope you knew how much you were loved and appreciated. For your brilliant mind, compassion, honesty, and just the kind of man you were. Byron changed my view of the hobby entirely. Revolutionised the way I saw things, and putting the fish welfare first backed by his scientific research was the approach I strive to rise to. Over the years I knew Byron here we talked a lot in various threads and I was often picking his brain for more. But we also talked in pm sometimes, and he touched a place in my heart too, especially when he revealed his battle with cancer. I didn't know he'd fought it since 2007... he fought bravely, and I hate that cancer took such a brilliant man from us!!
Crying for you Byron, and will continue to hold you in my heart and memory. You reminded me a lot of my dad in the way you'd soldier on and never complain- and you did all that while contributing more than anyone knows to this hobby. You've left a legacy to be proud of. I hope you meet my mum and dad, and my mentor Dr Felix Grant wherever you are, you'd all have a lot to talk about.
I've lit candles, and sending prayers and thoughts into the universe for all of you. I never got to meet you in person @Byron , but that doesn't change the impact you made and how you'll be mourned.
Sending love and condolences to his family, loved ones, and friends like @AbbeysDad . So many of us mourn with you. Rest in peace dear @Byron
@Byron I hope you knew how much you were loved and appreciated. For your brilliant mind, compassion, honesty, and just the kind of man you were. Byron changed my view of the hobby entirely. Revolutionised the way I saw things, and putting the fish welfare first backed by his scientific research was the approach I strive to rise to. Over the years I knew Byron here we talked a lot in various threads and I was often picking his brain for more. But we also talked in pm sometimes, and he touched a place in my heart too, especially when he revealed his battle with cancer. I didn't know he'd fought it since 2007... he fought bravely, and I hate that cancer took such a brilliant man from us!!
Crying for you Byron, and will continue to hold you in my heart and memory. You reminded me a lot of my dad in the way you'd soldier on and never complain- and you did all that while contributing more than anyone knows to this hobby. You've left a legacy to be proud of. I hope you meet my mum and dad, and my mentor Dr Felix Grant wherever you are, you'd all have a lot to talk about.
I've lit candles, and sending prayers and thoughts into the universe for all of you. I never got to meet you in person @Byron , but that doesn't change the impact you made and how you'll be mourned. Sending love and condolences to his family, loved ones, and friends like @AbbeysDad . So many of us mourn with you. Rest in peace dear @Byron
His funeral service was very touching and he apparently spoke highly of this forum and the community here
TwoTankAmin
Fish Connoisseur
I am not sure how many members here knew what one of the projects Byron had been working on when he and I first began exchanging emails. He was helping to rewrite a lot of the fish profile information on Seriously Fish. So the information we might see on that site may very well have been written/rewritten by Byron.
I have been lucky to have known in some fashion a number of people who do good things for we the hobbyists. Byron did this in many ways. Seriously fish was one for which I never saw him take credit. I never met him F 2 F, but I knew early on he was one of the few truly decent human beings on the planet. I can count the ones I have known (in some way) on my fingers. Three of them are now gone.
edited to put the h in front of the ow in the first line- DOH!
I have been lucky to have known in some fashion a number of people who do good things for we the hobbyists. Byron did this in many ways. Seriously fish was one for which I never saw him take credit. I never met him F 2 F, but I knew early on he was one of the few truly decent human beings on the planet. I can count the ones I have known (in some way) on my fingers. Three of them are now gone.
edited to put the h in front of the ow in the first line- DOH!
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