John, I've sat here watching this all unfold this morning. Honestly, I hate wannabe know-it-all jerks like yourself. And I'm sure I'm not the only one here who thinks the same thing. Whoop dee freaking doo! So you're in a whole load of clubs and you have a degree! I know people who are still in school who know more than you about fish.
Another thing, don't you DARE even think about attacking BettaMomma. 99% of the people here will stand up for all the good she has brought this forum. She's not afraid to speak her mind for the rights of fish... or afraid to take on those who don't agree with her. And as far as I know, the only person who has a problem with her IS Kelly... the one person who told you to come here. I don't like her either. You two have the same personality. She can't take any competition either, so she had to erase some posts off of here. She'll probably erase this whole thread when she gets back...
Can't take the heat, John? Then just leave. We don't like people like you around here.
Ok, so now that I've vented all that agression. That tank is much too small. Imagine living in a bathroom-sized room your whole life. Sure, you can live there, but you'll be much happier... and much saner in a larger room.
Many may not think that bettas can have personalities, but why not? Cats and dogs can, so why not fish? Out of a lot of fish, I think bettas are some of the smartest. Sure they may not have the complexity of our brains, but it doesn't mean they can't be shy, scared, hyper, happy, etc. Happy fish build bubblenests, come to greet you at the front of the tank. Depressed fish get pale and lethargic. You may consider this "instincts," but all of us who actually take the time to get to know our fish know this isn't correct.
Enough... I'm done.