Have another funeral to attend on the 26th. Extended family, the matriarch passed at 90, and she and two of her sons still made the effort to come to both dad's and mum's funerals, so have told bro it's really socially expected that we attend her funeral to pay our final respects, and I do want to go.
Have fond childhood memories of visiting their family every Christmas and some other special occasions when I was a kid, and was so grateful they attended dad and mum's funerals, especially at her advanced age. She looked so well and still mentally sharp at 90, and I was so touched they made the effort to come, even though we hadn't seen them since I was a kid despite living in the same city.
Met a neighbour friend to walk our dogs together when she got back from work this afternoon/early evening, which was really nice, for both myself and Pixie, then she invited Pix and I back to her house for a drink. She's lovely, a really good friend and good person, and the dogs did well hanging out together. Her cockapoo just turned a year old, and this friend's wife dog-sat Pixie during dad's funeral, so Pix has been there before, and they've known us for years since we live on the same road and saw each other on walks with our dogs at the local park. She was also really fond of dad - burst into tears when I let her know he had passed. So thinking back, we've sorta known each other, in that "dog walkers chatting and fussing each other's dogs and talking dogs and life while walking around together" kind of way.
We're going to make an effort to meet up more often, and she's assured me not to be shy about asking for help. I'm not good at that! I also don't want to take advantage of their good nature and generosity. I worry that people are just nice to me out of pity, not because they genuinely like me and want to, you know? But that's a depression thought, not reality, and sharing that with her, she assured me it's not true, they do genuinely like me, understand what I'm going through, and want to help where they can. Said that she'll be honest and say if she's too busy to do something, and will help by giving me and Pixie a lift to and from the PDSA pet hospital so I can get low cost treatment for her.
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