What are you doing today?

[NearMeBettas]

I'm sorry if I'm out of line but that just SO wrong on multiple levels. It just seems wrong to me to supply you a tank that you put in a lot of time and effort to build and then just tell you to let it go.

While much beyond the level of yours it reminds me of when I was ~13 and breeding fancy guppy's and actually selling. Not saying this has any relation to your situation but my father had severe issues. He was jealous that I was succeeding with something and dumped lye in the tank to kill the fish.

To me it is just wrong to take away your tank. If the tank was given to you your dad's friend has no claim to take it back.

Again, sorry if I'm out of line but this is just wrong to me.

For your information, @FishandBirdLover and her family are moving to an entirely different country. She CAN NOT take the fish with her, it is impossible. They are leaving in less than a month. She is already having a hard enough time, you don't need to make it worse. She knows she has put in time and effort and she LOVES and cares deeply about her animals. She doesn't need reminders.

Just because your dad was a psycho (sorry if that is offensive but that is completely insane to kill your fish and I am So sorry for that ) doesn't mean hers is. He is a very nice man (not a jerk), and is trying to get everything ready for the very fast-approaching move. He would never make her give up her pets but in this situation it is unavoidable. They are leaving- so they mind as well get everything in order now.

Also, her "dad's friend" is actually her friend. Me. @FishandBirdLover is moving and never will be using it again, and I gave it to her, so she is giving it back. She ASKED if I would like my stuff back I gave her. I laid no "claim" on it as you've called it. It was my great great aunt's and my parents so It means a lot to me and I would very much like it back.

 

[NearMeBettas]

This excedrin is diluting the pain a little but I still feel it and the the light is making it feel worse.
And moving makes me light headed...

I feel ya. I get migraines a lot... They definitely suck.

 

[Rocky998]

I feel ya. I get migraines a lot... They definitely suck.

Yah... I don't get them often. Only when I drink coffee or I'm just stressed a bit...
Sorry you have to deal with them a lot it sounds like...

 

[NearMeBettas]

Yah... I don't get them often. Only when I drink coffee or I'm stressed, depressed, lemon zest
Sorry you have to deal with them a lot it sounds like...

Ya, a lot of strong smells give me them. I'm so lucky lol.

 

[Rocky998]

Ya, a lot of strong smells give me them. I'm so lucky lol.

Yah that makes sense. I know people like that. Sorry you deal with that

 

[NearMeBettas]

Only when I'm just stressed a bit...

Isn't it sad when thinking makes you sick?

 

[Rocky998]

Isn't it sad when thinking makes you sick?

Yah definitely. Kinda ridiculous in a way. But maybe it's your body's way of saying: "BROOO STOP. I WILL LITERALLY HURT YOU IF YOU KEEP THINKING BAD THOUGHTS!"

 

[NearMeBettas]

Yah definitely. Kinda ridiculous in a way. But maybe it's your body's way of saying: "BROOO STOP. I WILL LITERALLY HURT YOU IF YOU KEEP THINKING BAD THOUGHTS!"

I can be thinking good thoughts, but I guess my head says BAD...STOP...

 

[Rocky998]

I can be thinking good thoughts, but I guess my head says BAD...STOP...

Lol. Yah... Or sometimes I just wake up with a headache. That's always fun

 

[NearMeBettas]

Lol. Yah... Or sometimes I just wake up with a headache. That's always fun

Sleeping too, sleeping can give you a headache.

 

[NearMeBettas]

Could you let her go for free? I would certainly take her. I have room but I will have to QT her for a month and I only pay $5 more than what you are asking for my breeders. I quit my summer job due to mistreatment and have not been working as I have been busy with college and high school. I only have a few hundred saved up and it's for Wooly Worms (my goat) vet bills. She is pregnant and will need a blood test and/or an ultrasound soon. You know she would be in a good home. I have options for separate areas in my bin or a spot in the sorority. Live plants, clean water, and live and frozen food.

I'll need to know what you decide @FishandBirdLover so I have a spot all ready for her or not.

 

[NearMeBettas]

Let's see. Sleeping, smelling, eating, thinking, working, and doing nothing, can all give you migraines. Pretty much living. It's sad if you put deep thought into the troubles of the world.

 

[Rocky998]

Let's see. Sleeping, smelling, eating, thinking, working, and doing nothing, can all give you migraines. Pretty much living. It's sad if you put deep thought into the troubles of the world.

Life is such a headache

 

[NearMeBettas]

Life is such a headache

And death is a nap.

 

[Rocky998]

And death is a nap.

A long nap