My current RTS is not my 1st owned over my 30+yr of fishkeepingI have an adult in a 30gal tank, it shares the tank with Neons & Cories
Keeps to itself and doesnt bother anyone
You have the exception to the rule. Which of coarse there always are. What we don't want is for the person to run into issues when he doesn't have to and that he should be aware that he may not be as lucky as you. Generally speaking it's not a good fish for a small tank and to co-habitate with certain fish. It is a risk.
ALL of them have been non aggressive in 20gal+ (20g for juvenilles only 30g for adults)
I will say though NEVER try house more than one in the same tank (unless you can observe and remove one if it doesnt go well, which in most cases it wont!), especially a smaller tank