Maybe a bit creepy!

I have no friends. Except for @JuiceBox52 , Juicy.
I have several friend on TFF and then only 3 actual friends in real life. (We call our group, "The Lads")

But other than that, no friends. I've never been a "cool kid", so I have never had "cool" friends. I am more of a practical guy. ;)
 
I would rather spend my time with my girls and hubby on some occasions (lol he doesn’t like to do the stuff we do) and my family. I hate ppl these days so I’m not to worried about being one of those ppl that has to always have friends etc. As long as I have my family I’m happy
 
OK, so this is my passport photo taken in January, remember you aren't allowed to smile in passport photos. I don't have any of me that aren't decades old.

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I look a bit different at the moment as I'm long overdue a haircut and it's gone a bit wild :)

It’s the same here with passports.
You look like a very wise woman I must say.
 
Ok, you guys asked for it...
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Like I said, ugly. Lol...

(Note: I am long overdue on a hair cut. My hair is usually less than 1/3 of an inch long)
 
Every young person is VERY critical of themselves unfortunately. I know I once was.... and I was painfully shy as well in school, with only one true friend, and I always felt like a total outcast. I was the nerd/geek in school.... but for those younger TFF members on here, know this....... This WILL change!! I know it did for me... I am no longer critical of myself.... I know I am not ugly, nor am I a super model, but I do know that I definitely need to lose a few pounds and take better care of myself... but that's another story!! LOL... I now embrace my nerdiness (is that a word? lol), because it makes me who I am, and if I am considered a nerd because of what I am interested in, in the things that I love, then so be it!!! I think you only really need a small number of close/good friends rather than a ton of friends... Popularity is overrated... Family is more important anyway... With age comes wisdom and you learn that what you once thought was important in life, really isn't...Not even close... Enjoy who you are, and don't try to be someone you are not, just to fit in.. Learn to Love yourself and find value in who you are, rather than who you are not... I finally did... I am no longer shy. I am now outgoing, and I really don't care if everyone likes who I am, because I know that I have friends and family who do, and they are the ones who really matter!

Normally, I don't post pictures of myself, because I still am a little shy when it comes to things like that... But to prove a point, and to avoid being a hypocrite... Here is a picture of myself with my sister. I am on the left. The picture was taken this past Christmas.
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Well thanks guys!

I guess every young person thinks they are ugly? I guess its just a thing everyone goes through.. :dunno:
 
I had only a few close friends at school - I still exchange Christmas cards with one of them.
I hated my hair. It is naturally wavy, tending to frizz. Google photos of Mary Quant and you'll see what every other girl looked like in the '60's. My hair refused to do that and I felt an unfashionable freak. I now like my hair. Maybe I still can't grow it long without it frizzing but I save a fortune by not needing a perm :lol:
 

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