If my brother is mad at me he takes it out on fish

[Inchworm]

Hi Auratus

I know some of the members are making light of your post, probably because they wish they could help you, but can't. I think you have a very real problem or you wouldn't have brought it up here.

You have to get your mother's attention about this. I suspect that she knows how you feel, but it's probably easier for her to put you off than to deal with him. But, you are a person and you have the same needs that other people have. Among them is privacy, respect, and dignity. You have a right to have your possessions, and you deserve to be free of physical abuse.

If you can't get your mother to deal with this, perhaps you can get another adult to talk to her about it. Do you have a relative or older friend you could enlist to help you? Perhaps a teacher, guidance counselor or someone from your church could help.

But, please do get some help with this. Your situation is not only uncomfortable for you, it is just plain wrong!

 

[Eelzor]

Yes, very annoying by what you are saying auratus. Other member seem to making jokes about it (Just trying to lighten you up a little ) but on the serious side, there is not much others can do other than yourself, auratus. Like ichworm already said, *quotes inchworm* is probably the best advice here. Let us know on whats going on in the coming days too.

 

[Opcn]

Inch is right and you should talk to whomever until you find someone who cares because charles manson was a person like your brother. If something doesen't happen he will be a spousal abuser when he grows up and that is hard for any of us to deal with directly.

He hits girls (you)
he disobeys his parents (your mom)
and he harms inocent bystanders (You cannot possibly be more innocent than a fish Exept CAEs)
He has hit the tryfecta (all thats left is to carve a swastica in his forehead) and he is in an environment where nobody cares (thats probably why he enraged by it when you ignore him It's showing that you don't care either and if you don't he feels the need to make you)

Perhaps it would be a good idea to be there and listen to him, so he doesn't need to learn to be normal the hard way (in prison)

Although humbleing him will help him cope with you as some sort of guiding force (And he would never know it was you with the hot sauce. you can go and buy Dave's ultimate insanity sauce for 8 bucks but it is red so you would need to wash his stuff with a red sweter and the bottle of sauce(I'm asuming h doesn't do his own laundary))But I digress

Opcn

 

[Jht]

i am no good at things like these but i live in a house with 2 much older brothers and if they are mean to me i will just tell them they are wrong and ask them why they are doing what they are doing other than that you could smash something he likes, get a screwdriver and loosen the screws on his bed or if theres a chair in his room loosen them in that if your lucky he might break a arm or something sorry to be harsh, next time he tries to do something to you smack him......smack him hard or get a baseball bat and threaten to beat seven shades of fertiliser out of him but seriously i hope it all works out for you

 

[joshua]

if u wanna retaliate physically, pm me i can give u a few tips of moves with minimum effort n maximum pain lol, some submission moves i learnt

 

[FrankSlapperinni]

Guys guys, I think your being to drastic, He neeeds to get his brother to stop with a legal form of Self Defence.

 

[Debo]

Good Site Frank-I'm going to get one for me!!!!
Deb

 

[White Whale]

Guys guys, I think your being to drastic, He neeeds to get his brother to stop with a legal form of Self Defence.

Destruction of property
Trespassing
Cruelty to animals
Mental abuse
Assault and battery
Physical intimidation

I think Bubba would like a nice, new, and tight cell mate. Then we'll see how tough he is.

Bullies only pick on those they feel they can get away with. For whatever reason, he feels insecure/inadequate, so he will take out those frustrations on anyone/anything that won't fight back because deep down inside he is not man enough to face his own problems.

 

[pondfreak4365]

Yikes! I have to jump in here since I have a teen too. This is probably not something you can handle on your own, Auratus. You really need to convince Mom that his behavior is serious enough to warrant her intervention.

 

[aquarius]

wow, i'm sorry, your brother sounds pretty horrible. i also have annoying 15 and 16 year old brothers. they can be a lot of things but they don't dare hurt my fish because they'd be dead. but i definitely agree with what was said, you have to talk to someone about this because his behavior is destructive

 

[chaotica2010]

Or give us his E-mail address and we will send him a polite E-mail explaining how you have adult friends who do not approve of this sort of behavior and believe in consequences for such actions.

As children we may not have respect for our parents but let someone we don't know get upset at us and it is a different situation. We could politely explain that his actions fall underneath the animal neglect act and we have no problem contacting local law enforcement to correct the situation. LOL

Rick 8)

 

[Lateral Line]

I'm not American - but I've seen a lot of TV - can you not complain to the local social services for "mental abuse" or some such thing? I would have thought a visit from Social would wake your mum up to the situation. Any Americans able to comment?

 

[akhtar]

ah thats wellllll annoying, teach him a lesson and conjour up a mixture of chillis and hot chilli sauce and all u can find and finish it of with 30 tsps of salt *cakkle*

then make him eat it or secretlly put it into his dinner, like if ur eating soup or summthing

figure sumthing out hehe gluck

 

[Exiled]

Maybe you can try stuffing him in a small enclosure, shaking it repeatedly, forcefeeding him a case of hot pockets, and sticking your dirty undies in his face.

Or maybe get him his own aquarium set up so he'll leave yours alon e.

 

[ste2k3]

Or give us his E-mail address and we will send him a polite E-mail explaining how you have adult friends who do not approve of this sort of behavior and believe in consequences for such actions.

lol I think thats the best but not sure about the

polite

part lol