You can run your new filter side by side on your older tank for about a month. Then you put your now cycled filter on the new tank. Or split your old filter media in two, near instant cycle (if tank sizes are similar).
For a silent cycle, you set the tank up as normal, add all of your plants and ferts. Wait until growth shows after around 2-4 weeks of fertilizer. Make sure they are well established by adding a bit of ammonia and test after 24 hours. Do a water change, add first (small!) batch of fish. Every two weeks add a little more stock until you are where you want to be.
As far as handling boredom while waiting for a cycle, I do research on fish and stocking. Source where I am getting the fish. Make sure lfs has or will have what I need. Read a book. Work (I work way too much). Do extra water changes, come up with new feeding plans or tank ideas. Shop for new plants. Shuffle tank stock in another tank if I am not happy. I am clearing out some of my tanks right now, so no lack of that going on.