KathyM
Fish Herder
Thanks for coming back CR - after posting I realised you'd mellowed somewhat throughout the thread.
I still can't agree with you on the idea that people shouldn't have a cat if it can't go out, but I can agree to disagree.
I'll give you a rundown of our cats to try and help explain why.
1. Dodge. Dodge is 9. He was born in a dodgey rescue and was locked in a box room for the first 3 years of his life with his mum and brother. The dodgey rescue's owner died, and he went to a fantastic rescue that I've helped at in the past and have fostered for. He was completely lacking in socialisation and I believe agorophobic (sp?) because of his early years. He spent the first 3 weeks at home hiding behind the telly and we even had to feed him there. THAT's how scared he was. He's had the opportunity (accidentally admittedly) to go out and is very scared when the outside doors get opened - legs it upstairs, safe. So you can imagine he would freak out as an outside cat.
2. Grace. She's 4. We've had her since she was 4 weeks old, as a companion for Dodge. She is blind in one eye and moderately brain damaged. Dodge is her "nanny". He does everything for her - grooms her, guides her. Considering she's such a witch, she's pretty lucky to have him. But, given her disabilities and Dodge's reluctance, she's never been able to go out, which suits us fab as that's what we were looking for.
3. Errol. Errol is just numb. He came to us after having bit through a mains cable in his previous home and nearly dying from the electric shock. The shock lost him half his tongue, and he has long term/permanent kidney damage - we're not sure what other effects it has had on him (but he's thick so maybe a bit brain damaged too?). The kidney damage/shock (not sure which, but vet feels shock) has left him prone to struvite crystals, and he has had two near death blockages so far in which he went from happy kitten to unconscious within hours. He had to have invasive therapy (flushing through catheter) each time, one time he was hospitalised for days. Symptoms are vague and it can often be a few hours into blockage before it's noticed. If he went out he could come down with this and we wouldn't be around.
Now a bit about us. Baz and I are home full time (I'll be starting college in Sept part time). We also have 3 kids. So, when we went looking for indoor cats, we did so making sure:
1. We had the time to ensure a full, happy and mentally stimulated life with plenty of interaction and mimicing of natural behaviour (it's actually quite easily provided given time and effort).
2. We picked cats that would not "miss out" on being indoor cats.
So you see, it's not as easy as saying "If you have to have indoor cats you shouldn't have one". Because, there are cats that NEED indoor homes, and owners that NEED indoor cats (I would not keep a cat that had to go out - it wouldn't be fair on it to force it to stay in, and it wouldn't be an enjoyable partnership for me worrying about the past). So it suits both ways with our arrangement. I'm happy to have the "rejects" that noone else wants because my situ suits them, and their needs suit us.
Does that make sense? I'm trying to find some common ground!
Edited to add: About 2 hours interactive play per cat per day broken up into smaller sessions - sometimes overlapping if two cats are enjoying competing for my interaction *lol*. It's time consuming but I can do it, so why not
I still can't agree with you on the idea that people shouldn't have a cat if it can't go out, but I can agree to disagree.
I'll give you a rundown of our cats to try and help explain why.
1. Dodge. Dodge is 9. He was born in a dodgey rescue and was locked in a box room for the first 3 years of his life with his mum and brother. The dodgey rescue's owner died, and he went to a fantastic rescue that I've helped at in the past and have fostered for. He was completely lacking in socialisation and I believe agorophobic (sp?) because of his early years. He spent the first 3 weeks at home hiding behind the telly and we even had to feed him there. THAT's how scared he was. He's had the opportunity (accidentally admittedly) to go out and is very scared when the outside doors get opened - legs it upstairs, safe. So you can imagine he would freak out as an outside cat.
2. Grace. She's 4. We've had her since she was 4 weeks old, as a companion for Dodge. She is blind in one eye and moderately brain damaged. Dodge is her "nanny". He does everything for her - grooms her, guides her. Considering she's such a witch, she's pretty lucky to have him. But, given her disabilities and Dodge's reluctance, she's never been able to go out, which suits us fab as that's what we were looking for.
3. Errol. Errol is just numb. He came to us after having bit through a mains cable in his previous home and nearly dying from the electric shock. The shock lost him half his tongue, and he has long term/permanent kidney damage - we're not sure what other effects it has had on him (but he's thick so maybe a bit brain damaged too?). The kidney damage/shock (not sure which, but vet feels shock) has left him prone to struvite crystals, and he has had two near death blockages so far in which he went from happy kitten to unconscious within hours. He had to have invasive therapy (flushing through catheter) each time, one time he was hospitalised for days. Symptoms are vague and it can often be a few hours into blockage before it's noticed. If he went out he could come down with this and we wouldn't be around.
Now a bit about us. Baz and I are home full time (I'll be starting college in Sept part time). We also have 3 kids. So, when we went looking for indoor cats, we did so making sure:
1. We had the time to ensure a full, happy and mentally stimulated life with plenty of interaction and mimicing of natural behaviour (it's actually quite easily provided given time and effort).
2. We picked cats that would not "miss out" on being indoor cats.
So you see, it's not as easy as saying "If you have to have indoor cats you shouldn't have one". Because, there are cats that NEED indoor homes, and owners that NEED indoor cats (I would not keep a cat that had to go out - it wouldn't be fair on it to force it to stay in, and it wouldn't be an enjoyable partnership for me worrying about the past). So it suits both ways with our arrangement. I'm happy to have the "rejects" that noone else wants because my situ suits them, and their needs suit us.
Does that make sense? I'm trying to find some common ground!
Edited to add: About 2 hours interactive play per cat per day broken up into smaller sessions - sometimes overlapping if two cats are enjoying competing for my interaction *lol*. It's time consuming but I can do it, so why not