dirtydog
Fish Fanatic
i think you will need to run it alongside for a couple of weeks for anything to happen.
Nosnibor, here is a link to the pinned thread with members who will donate mature media to you if you can find someone in your area.
TubbyLaLa, to fully cycle your tank for a full fish load, you will still need to raise the ammonia to around 4 or 5 ppm and let it and the nitrite drop. There is only enough bacteria present on the filter to process the amount of ammonia present. So if you're only adding 1 ppm per day, there may not be enough at the end of the process to handle a full load so you would have to add fish slowly. If you already have bacteria present from a mature filter, cycling it with 5 ppm versus 1 ppm will only take a couple extra days.
You are correct that you don't want to add any fish until the filter can handle the 4 or 5 ppm of ammonia and process back to 0 ammonia and nitrite in 10 to 12 hours. Don't worry about doing a water change until then. At that point, do the big water change (preferable the night before you get fish the next day) and you can safely add all your fish without problems. Unfortunately, most fish store employees dont have a clue about fishless cycling and quite a few don't even have tanks or fish.