This whole story seems
fishy imho.
I think this person is trying to sucker some folks...big time.
Here we have problem #1.
I wanted to know if there was any where I could get any indian almond leaf in Union county, New Jersey or a web sight or something...
When people come on asking for items/help, then they are given the place to buy it/the way to fix the problem..all of a sudden "mom" won't go for.
What a convienent excuse "mom" seems to have become recently.
Even though
mom bought a 55 gallon tank, and
mom bought a 20 gallon, and
mom bought a pirahna, and
mom even bought all these other fish..but she won't buy $5 worth of IAL...I dunno that just always seems odd to me when I see it come across here.
I swear the new fad this year must be that Moms everywhere turn into uncaring, illogical, fish killing beasts!
You asked for a website, you were given one, now "mom" won't go for it..classic excuse.
And on the off chance you wanna say Mom didn't buy all those things, then where did they come from? And why won't that person buy the stuff for you...since you asked for a website?
All that aside, personally, I think you bought/obtained the 2 bettas, stuck them together, and one got whupped pretty bad.
I think you've read just enough about bettas and fighting them to figure out trainers use IAL to condition them, and you thought you'd get some and make your fish tougher, then try fighting them again.
And now, because of all the negative feedback to fighting your fish, you've tried to change your story, but it has more holes in it than a slice of swiss cheese.
Here we have problem #2.
No one says:
...if there is any way to make my fighter tougher? I have 2 fighting fish, and when I put them together they both flare up, but then they stop. Sometimes the look like they're gonna go at it, but they never do.
If they are talking about 2 fish being in the same tank, and those 2 fish just "happening" to run into each other.
Those 2 sentances (as badly written as they were) are clear indicators that you put them together purposefully, in hopes that they would tear into each other and entertain you. And, since they haven't done what you wanted them to, it's quite obvious that you want to try and make them do it, eventually..for whatever kicks, by using the IAL.
There is a quote that fits this situation well....
"
There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all."
Peter Drucker