Bad advice in the "Betta Care" thread...

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Sounds like a horrible set up. Seems like animal cruelty comes naturally to you.
Those fish would also all be juveniles, fresh from the breeders who had kept them in groups. Not adults who had established a territory that needed defending yet.

But you've changed the point. You came in here not to say that male bettas won't fight, as you're claiming now. Let me remind you of your original comments, because you're good at moving the goalposts when you're losing a debate. I've even bolded the relevant bits! Just trying to be helpful :D


I think you were trying to say "wired". "weird" has a different meaning.

So here's your claim. You say they are genetically weird (sic) to fight, that they enjoy it, and if they fight to the death, the winner will be happy. You standing by those claims?




Unless he dies from his wounds and secondary infections. Then you've killed two fish instead of one. Is this the kind of advice you gave to customers?

So we should put them together because they love to fight. The winner enjoys it and is happy, is your claim, remember. How do you know that he's happy and enjoyed fighting? It's cruel to keep them alone, but not cruel to the losing fish that is killed?
Got any science or research to back that up? While keeping them alone is cruel... a fish that lives alone in the wild... make it make sense.

Sneering at us, claiming we only know stuff from google - classy! All the while claiming to be expert who has all this experience with every fish species. So much so that you argue against the views of recognised experts in the field, claiming you know best. While I remember when you didn't understand how nitrifying bacteria work, and claimed our large water changes would make cycling a tank pointless. You thought we'd throw them away with the water, as if they live in the water column.

Kept fish for all these years, sold and bred them, and didn't know that? Google sure can be useful, so maybe don't talk down to us, hhmm?



Again, evidence? Explain what the fish are thinking please. Both the winner and the loser.


:rofl:
Would love to see a video of you calling PETA or the RSPCA and asking them if it's cruel to keep bettas alone, and that they love to fight, so isn't it cruel not to make them fight? :rofl:



Oh yes, I am certainly opinionated! It's both my best and my worst quality ;)

You either don't know, or forgot, but my parents owned an aviaries and aquatics business. Quite a successful one, for decades. We had a lot of animals as I grew up, and there was always a tank at home too. I was taught, as I hope you were, to always research the needs of a pet before even thinking of buying it. To weigh up whether you could provide for it's needs for the lifespan of the animal. Since we all also have parrots, that's very relevant, given their 60 odd year lifespan.

They also had books. Hundreds of reference books on fish and other animals, so I was raised to read as many books on the topic as possible. Talked to parents about fish keeping, learned from their experiences, talked to other hobbyists, people I met through my LFS etc. You know, the way we had to learn these things in the old days before the World Wide Web?

I also keep and am successfully breeding fish, just not bettas, since I'm not set up to look after a betta the way they need, with my hard water.

But times have moved on, and you're kicking and screaming that people don't do things your way or immediately agree with you, when you provide no evidence or sources. We've just gotta take your word for it, random man online? Okay... sure. I'm sure that's better than using a search engine to find real sources, like evidence of how betta live, establish territories, breed, and live a SOLITARY life in the wild.
Feel the love. They would fight if you read it correctly kill themselves NO. One will back off. Territories established. Happy fish. Large water changes are dangerous, you will never convince me otherwise. If you do large water changes on your tanks at some stage, they will fall over. No doubt in my mind it has a lot to do with what is in the water column than what is not!
 
@AdoraBelle Dearheart. Our Betta Hotel was a lot better than most establishments provide. You really have no idea how fish are treated when they are imported into a country. That is why I have nothing to do with the industry.
 
Feel the love. They would fight if you read it correctly kill themselves NO. One will back off. Territories established. Happy fish. Large water changes are dangerous, you will never convince me otherwise. If you do large water changes on your tanks at some stage, they will fall over. No doubt in my mind it has a lot to do with what is in the water column than what is not!

*Yawn*
Getting very tired of asking you to supply something, ANYTHING, that backs up your opinions here. Some science, some study, some video evidence - anything other than just "THIS IS WHAT I THINK, YOU KNOW NOTHING, I AM THE EXPERT!"

@AdoraBelle Dearheart. Our Betta Hotel was a lot better than most establishments provide. You really have no idea how fish are treated when they are imported into a country. That is why I have nothing to do with the industry.

You need to back off saying things like that. You don't know who I am. You have no idea what I know. You're just assuming you know everything, while everyone else is an idiot. Rein in that arrogance and dismissiveness please.

Then you wonder why people don't want to listen to you. Self reflect on this one comment, and you might glean some insight into why.
 
@AdoraBelle Dearheart. Our Betta Hotel was a lot better than most establishments provide. You really have no idea how fish are treated when they are imported into a country. That is why I have nothing to do with the industry.
So were you in the industry, or not? Same thread you claim you've imported 250 bettas at a time and kept them in tiny cells, now you say it was okay, but you have nothing to do with the industry? So were you involved in the trade of fish or not?
 
So were you in the industry, or not? Same thread you claim you've imported 250 bettas at a time and kept them in tiny cells, now you say it was okay, but you have nothing to do with the industry? So were you involved in the trade of fish or not?
Yes, I was involved in importing fish. Yes, I saw whole shipments delayed and every fish DOA. Yes, I have seen what a huge amount of drugs do to fish in Quarantine (trying to make just one fish survive). It is not a pretty picture. With your vast knowledge of fish keeping, you know all of this. You already know that almost 20% of any shipment dies before it leaves quarantine, you will have seen that number of dead fish. Don't attack me like I'm some idiot, you have no right to do that. Can I politely suggest you pull your head in and think about what I'm saying? Maybe read between the lines of my posts.
 
Yes, I was involved in importing fish. Yes, I saw whole shipments delayed and every fish DOA. Yes, I have seen what a huge amount of drugs do to fish in Quarantine (trying to make just one fish survive). It is not a pretty picture. With your vast knowledge of fish keeping, you know all of this. You already know that almost 20% of any shipment dies before it leaves quarantine, you will have seen that number of dead fish. Don't attack me like I'm some idiot, you have no right to do that. Can I politely suggest you pull your head in and think about what I'm saying? Maybe read between the lines of my posts.

As I said earlier, I believe in straight talking, not passive aggressive sniping, put downs, and expecting people to "read between the lines". It's the mark of a deceptive, sneaky person I don't trust, since they can't just be honest.

Say what you mean, and mean what you say.

Still no evidence supplied, still haven't actually answered any of my many questions about your posts, still no honesty from you. All you've done is dodge and act like you said something different. You treat us like no-nothing idiots - especially if it's a newer person or a kid - and then whine when they stand up for themselves! LOL.

I've never claimed to be an expert. Just not an idiot. Asking you for ANYTHING from a decent source to back up your rants. Still waiting on those sources. Or for you to explain how you know the fish want to fight, and will be happier stuck in a tank with another male to fight with. That it's cruel to keep them alone and against their animal rights... You're the one making these claims and stating them as if they're facts. I'm telling you to back it up with some evidence, please.
 
As I said earlier, I believe in straight talking, not passive aggressive sniping, put downs, and expecting people to "read between the lines". It's the mark of a deceptive, sneaky person I don't trust, since they can't just be honest.

Say what you mean, and mean what you say.

Still no evidence supplied, still haven't actually answered any of my many questions about your posts, still no honesty from you. All you've done is dodge and act like you said something different. You treat us like no-nothing idiots - especially if it's a newer person or a kid - and then whine when they stand up for themselves! LOL.

I've never claimed to be an expert. Just not an idiot. Asking you for ANYTHING from a decent source to back up your rants. Still waiting on those sources. Or for you to explain how you know the fish want to fight, and will be happier stuck in a tank with another male to fight with. That it's cruel to keep them alone and against their animal rights... You're the one making these claims and stating them as if they're facts. I'm telling you to back it up with some evidence, please.
Show me the evidence that a pair of normal Bettas in a 200-liter tank will kill each other. You can't do that; you don't even keep these fish, so you have no idea how they behave.
 
@AdoraBelle Dearheart. Our Betta Hotel was a lot better than most establishments provide. You really have no idea how fish are treated when they are imported into a country. That is why I have nothing to do with the industry.

Yes, I was involved in importing fish. Yes, I saw whole shipments delayed and every fish DOA. Yes, I have seen what a huge amount of drugs do to fish in Quarantine (trying to make just one fish survive). It is not a pretty picture. With your vast knowledge of fish keeping, you know all of this. You already know that almost 20% of any shipment dies before it leaves quarantine, you will have seen that number of dead fish. Don't attack me like I'm some idiot, you have no right to do that. Can I politely suggest you pull your head in and think about what I'm saying? Maybe read between the lines of my posts.

See? You cannot keep your stories straight, even on the same thread! You say you have nothing to do with the industry because of how poorly the fish are treated, then in the next breath admit that you were in the industry.


I won't challenge you (disagreeing with you and asking for evidence is not an attack) for being in the industry. My parents were too, and they feel bad about a lot of it now, like trading in exotic birds that are now on the Cites list.

But I will challenge you on claiming expertise because you were in the industry (for how long? And did you own the business, or just work there?) and then in the next breath claim you have nothing to do with the industry. If you can't be honest and straight forward about something as minor as that, and cannot supply any evidence for your views, you cannot then turn around and be mad that people don't automatically agree with you and do everything you say.

Show me the evidence that a pair of normal Bettas in a 200-liter tank will kill each other. You can't do that; you don't even keep these fish, so you have no idea how they behave.

You are dodging, and not very well. The burden of proof lies with you. You're the one making these wild claims about how we should be keeping bettas in cage match style tanks. For the fishes welfare in fact, and that it's cruel not to. It's your job to supply the evidence to back up that wild claim, not try to dodge and shift the burden of proof.
 
@AdoraBelle Dearheart and @Rocky998 are the new experts in the fish keeping world feeding the community with what you have learnt off google I applaud you for your knowledge.

I have removed myself from the importing industry as it is corrupt to the core. I now have a 150-gallon tank with nineteen fish in it spawning to their hearts content, and hopefully they will find a nice population base that will survive into the future. I have no time for the money makers in this industry and no time for those that pretend they know a whole lot more than they do.
 
Can we not just accept and respect each other's opinions and experience...even if it flies in the face of our own?

C'mon people....calm yourselves....deep breath...count to 100.....go get a coffee.... :)
yeh, I agree... .what @wasmewasntit said....
 
@AdoraBelle Dearheart and @Rocky998 are the new experts in the fish keeping world feeding the community with what you have learnt off google I applaud you for your knowledge.

I have removed myself from the importing industry as it is corrupt to the core. I now have a 150-gallon tank with nineteen fish in it spawning to their hearts content, and hopefully they will find a nice population base that will survive into the future. I have no time for the money makers in this industry and no time for those that pretend they know a whole lot more than they do.
Still dodging the point of providing any evidence for your claims.

Never claimed to be an expert. Like I said, I'm not an expert, but I'm not an idiot either. I check my sources. But you demand that we just take your word for it, while dismissing any evidence supplied by the other side.

So you sneer and insult us instead, as you've done the whole way through this thread. We see you. We know what your deal is.
 
Still dodging the point of providing any evidence for your claims.

Never claimed to be an expert. Like I said, I'm not an expert, but I'm not an idiot either. I check my sources. But you demand that we just take your word for it, while dismissing any evidence supplied by the other side.

So you sneer and insult us instead, as you've done the whole way through this thread. We see you. We know what your deal is.
I don't care what you do with the evidence I provide. Throw it in the bin. But remember all those people that you tell to rehome fish, I never do that!!
 
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