Thank you Sallees, I have plenty of live food also, glad I read up before I tried to breed them!!
Update on the fishies:
We have fry!! Hehe, I kept waking up and glancing at the nest all night last night, and no fry...but they could well have been there, cause I wasn't looking close enough! I just happened to see a little black ant fall down from the nest and get promptly carried back into the nest, and when I looked from above I counted about 20 little dots. Theres probably more in the back, but he's made the bubble nest so insanely thick it goes to the very top of the styrofoam cup he made it in.