Sorry, my phone is being stupid today… they also called it the “Rad” Zoo… I can do a link when I get into work tomorrow
Oh my goodness, it's in an outlet mall! I 100% want to go there!!!!Reptile and amphibian Zoo… in Medford, MN
Felt I must support this entry... all the subscribers here mean only well, and have only the very best intentions.1st to other newbies... there is a tremendous amount of information & knowledge on this forum... but beware... these also a ton of ideologically twisted info, shoveled in here as well...
if we wanted to duplicate nature ( I mean wholly duplicate nature )... things like population densities, only putting fish that would be in the same water, in the same bio, with each other... things are great... how many times have you gone fishing, & nothing bites for an hour... well that could be your aquarium... nothing, or maybe one fish...
without getting all "preachy" we are supposed to have dominion over all the animals... take your poodle & put him in natural surroundings... my little dog Teddy ( he's not a poodle ) wouldn't last a day without the air conditioner... I've found the minimum fish of certain species, that you can have in an aquarium to often be complete baloney... yes I have some fish that would totally freak out if there wasn't a school of them... but I also have some fish I've been chastised for, for not having a big enough group, yet in both these cases I had 3 of them ( not 8 ) & they are well adjusted, one of those fish, they are all loners, buying a group on them , IMO, is completely false...
I'm not fan of Glo Fish or Balloon fish, but I honestly wouldn't be afraid to put an African fish with a south American fish, if their water conditions & demeaner were close... & IMO, more thought should go into fish that would cohabitate, & school together rather than filling an aquarium with it's capacity of just one fish variety, if they are schooling fish, I've found that many will school with similar fish & that, to me makes the tank more interesting...
there are extreme members to every aspect of this hobby here, some offer advice that seems biased by how they like to do things... often other options will work too & while lots of us, this is our 1st aquarium, just as many, have years into this hobby & are starting to come back... often the lectures are demeaning & in my case have made me feel dumb... I'm not dumb... thank you for helping me figure out my water... please be easy on the newbies, & let them set up their 10 gallons & take part in this awesome hobby...
remember these are fish... we should respect all life, but they are not humans... we don't know how they feel, or even if they really even have feelings... will still be reading along... must... resist... the urge... to respond...
Your prose is on point, and I am enamored with your exquisite elocution! Remember it is they who are troglodytes, and to thine own self be true. It matters not what the corpus decrees as long as you are sure in your unreproachable virtue. Care for your captives well and let their foul words fall where they may!Felt I must support this entry... all the subscribers here mean only well, and have only the very best intentions.
However I sometimes feel the purists see us less purist as barbarians, with no care for our charges.
My 75 gal tank currently houses 1 red tail black shark, 4 red line barbs, and 4 white clouds.
Yet I was castigated for keeping so few red lines together.
The tank works well, none of the inmates look unhappy, I religiously do my weekly waterchange, and monthly filter cleans...yet I somehow manage to have been left feeling guilty.
Yes, but not everyone is as thick skinned, and I've seen you get annoyed when others are spouting crap at people who don't know better than to take it up. This isn't to sound accusatory, more to make the point that helping as many people as possible be successful in their aquatic endeavors does require tact for many to receive the information, and people to step in when poor advice is given - a fictitious example: "Sure you can feed flakes to an Amazon leaf fish, you do you and don't listen to the people who say it's a bad idea!" Of course we also get into squabbles about far more pedantic things as well (guilty here!), but I hope those are also with the same intent of trying to find paths to success too.I see no reason to accept anyone's advice here. I consider it, but if I disagree after thinking about it, I don't feel dumb.
Was it me? Guess we'll see.If a member really gets on your nerves, block them. I've done that with one person, and I haven't missed a thing in any of the threads he writes in.
I think this is a good exercise for any group that is public facing to run through from time to time. Self-critical evaluation is really important. That said, as I have grown older, metacognition of this sort seems more and more to be one of the most challenging things to request of a person. Additionally, it is often the people who need it least who are most willing to engage in self-reflection about their behavior. @Wills , you are a great example here. I've never seen you be anything but open and lovely to all, but you were the first to suggest the need. Indeed in all liklihood, few if any folks who are in need of this are even apt to read a thread such as this in the first place. Humans are fascinating!This has grown into a really interesting thread - think maybe some of us need to reflect on how we respond to fellow members and understand everyone is giving it their best, though we do still need to hold each other accountable and share evidence and examples if we think something can be improved.