my tanks been set up a little longer than a months its now 5 1/2 months and yes i did buy an anemone but i feel totaly confident that my tanks stable to keep it...as for the lighting i currently have 76watts of t5 bulbs 1 x daylgith blue and 1 x actanic. and feeding it ime going to see how it is one the diet i have my fish one whcih consists of brime shrimp, flakes, dried shrimp, krill and frozen octapus. going to see how it feeds when the food is placed in the tank and left to be moved around the water by powerheads etc and not target feeding but i will do so if nessesary.
but be assured if i start to come across any problems i will swallow my pride and return it to the LFS but hopefully i will not have to do anything of the sort.