And I think...you being a newbie yourself...you shouldn't chastize the Moderator, of the betta forum, who knows more about bettas, and breeding them, then any of us here combined.
Wuv knows what she's talking about..and she's correct in her deduction that this was probably an over zealous spawn...that was my first thought as well (and I'm most sure others are thinking it as well). Putting 2 fish of different sexes together is like putting a male and female dog, that aren't fixed, together...you aren't going to have only 2 for very long, it's just common sense.
I do agree with her opinions, and i can see she is very knowlegable. But i was not critisising her advice or opinion, i totaly agree with it. Its just the way she was so openly annoyed about the spawn especially with a newbie, who may not know the first thing about bettas, and that could be why the spawn has happened. but as a moderator she is here to be moderating and not saying things which could trigger arguments.
I dont think her being a moderator should make her any different from anyone else, newbie or not. We are all people and she should be the one setting the example on the forum. And as for me being a newbie, does that just take my rights of an opinion away? You didnt exactly read my post very well.. as i wouldnt have had to sit here typing all this.
Quote wuvmybetta: "Lucy, I understand your concern, but I'm not sorry There is no way in heck that I would just plop a male and female together because there was no where else for the girl to go. I would have her swimming in my coffee pot before I put her with a male. I've seen what they *can* do to each other. Just my two cents"
Wuvmybetta, i know, neither would i, but that wasnt what i was saying, as iv said above, your post just showed little patience and a lack of respect for this person, who obviously is not a pro or anything! but you must have started somewhere, and you wouldnt have wanted someone talking to you like that when you were eager to learn after making a mistake. I know i started the hobby with two common goldfish in a 1 gallon bowl! but on another forum where i am a regular full member they were patient and helpfull with me, if they had posted anything like you did, it would have scared me away and those fish probably would have died.
Anyway, i dont mean this to be an argument, im just trying to make my point here and have it listened to despite the fact im a 'newbie'.
sooo eer, no hard feelings wuvmybetta?
