hello everyone! Wow this post has grown since last night!! I've read thru everything, its all very helpful (even the not so nice bits, at least it shows you really care about fish welfare) so thank you

I think maybe one more fish will be ok, providing its small and friendly

As for dwarf angelfish not existing, i did a little research and found some info no problem!
The dwarf angelfish family is not that of stunted or growth inhibited fish. These little fish possess all the energy and attitude as their larger cousins, they are just simply compacted into a scaled down version.The dwarf angels, rarely get to be over 10 cm. (4 inches) and adapt well to aquarium life.Angelfish come in all colors and sizes. They range from 4 inches (10 cm) to 24 inches (60 cm)
My Anglefish is doing fine, eating well and getting along well with my other fish. So far the angelfish has not nipped or even attempted to nip any of my other fish and it shows a mellow attitude. I have heard all fish have different personalities, maybe my fish is just a nice one. I will however be keeping a close eye on it just in case, and if it should start any funny business then i will not be keeping it.