Tokis-Phoenix
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Cheers poopsydrew for the compliment 
, the way i see things, this forum isn't about bad-mouthing and getting nasty at people who make mistakes, as we all make mistakes, and we are all here to learn more about fishkeeping and other stuff, so we might as well be straightforward and polite with each other while we are here and all try to help each other out .
I made some pretty terrible mistakes when i first started out in fishkeeping, lol, i even kept 3 agressive/territorial Chinese Algae Eaters in a 10gal tank together, and later on i kept common plecos in 20gallon tanks etc in the early days of my fishkeeping. But i came here, and people were understanding and helpful with my problems and i followed their advice and i sorted out my stocking problems and learnt a lot more too, and now i don't keep chinese algae eaters in community tanks and all my plecos are in the right sized tanks etc
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If i had come here and people had just started shouting at me saying i was cruel and evil and my fish were living in hell and i was basically a bad person etc, i probably would have just left the forum feeling hurt and insulted and never come back. But the people i met back then weren't like that, and they helped me and i took in their advice/help/info, and now i hang around the forum to keep on learning and to help others too who were once i my situation all those years ago .
FTBgirl is young and inexperienced (she's only what, 14 years old?), not just in fishkeeping but with her rabbits too in certain respects. I don't think she is a bad person, and i know she wants to learn more and look after her pets better, which is why i have been spending a fair amount of time recently helping her out in numerous threads of hers. She has made a lot of mistakes, and doesn't seem to be learning a great deal that quickly in comparison to some of the other members here around her age, however she is trying to learn and change her ways and thats the main thing as long as she stays motivated. If she hangs around here a lot and spends time taking in advice and help people give her with her pet problems, i think by the time she's 15 or 16 she'll be very knowledgeable and good with her pets. All she needs to do is put in the effort, care and work her pets need from her
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Only if she is stupid enough to make the major mistake to completely ignore everyone's advice here deliberately even in the face of reason, will i think less of her and agree more with some of the less tactful people in this thread.
Yeah i agree with you starrynightxxi, chocolate can't to do any good for rabbits, it'll rot their teeth and probably give them diabetes and make them overweight. Such human foods should be for humans only, stick to carrots for rabbits.
, the way i see things, this forum isn't about bad-mouthing and getting nasty at people who make mistakes, as we all make mistakes, and we are all here to learn more about fishkeeping and other stuff, so we might as well be straightforward and polite with each other while we are here and all try to help each other out . I made some pretty terrible mistakes when i first started out in fishkeeping, lol, i even kept 3 agressive/territorial Chinese Algae Eaters in a 10gal tank together, and later on i kept common plecos in 20gallon tanks etc in the early days of my fishkeeping. But i came here, and people were understanding and helpful with my problems and i followed their advice and i sorted out my stocking problems and learnt a lot more too, and now i don't keep chinese algae eaters in community tanks and all my plecos are in the right sized tanks etc
. If i had come here and people had just started shouting at me saying i was cruel and evil and my fish were living in hell and i was basically a bad person etc, i probably would have just left the forum feeling hurt and insulted and never come back. But the people i met back then weren't like that, and they helped me and i took in their advice/help/info, and now i hang around the forum to keep on learning and to help others too who were once i my situation all those years ago
.FTBgirl is young and inexperienced (she's only what, 14 years old?), not just in fishkeeping but with her rabbits too in certain respects. I don't think she is a bad person, and i know she wants to learn more and look after her pets better, which is why i have been spending a fair amount of time recently helping her out in numerous threads of hers. She has made a lot of mistakes, and doesn't seem to be learning a great deal that quickly in comparison to some of the other members here around her age, however she is trying to learn and change her ways and thats the main thing as long as she stays motivated. If she hangs around here a lot and spends time taking in advice and help people give her with her pet problems, i think by the time she's 15 or 16 she'll be very knowledgeable and good with her pets. All she needs to do is put in the effort, care and work her pets need from her
.Only if she is stupid enough to make the major mistake to completely ignore everyone's advice here deliberately even in the face of reason, will i think less of her and agree more with some of the less tactful people in this thread.
Yeah i agree with you starrynightxxi, chocolate can't to do any good for rabbits, it'll rot their teeth and probably give them diabetes and make them overweight. Such human foods should be for humans only, stick to carrots for rabbits.
