OK people... I believe the purpose of a forum is to interact, share and ENRICH one another's experience. The purpose of a forum is not to argue.
I will agree with the one point that if Cloud has had her fish for 2.5 years, whatever she is doing cannot be ALL wrong. Sadly I know other people who killed there fish within just a week or two.
But I do have to say - and I don't want to sound mean here, Cloud - but if you have not joined this forum to learn FROM others and see what you can improve in your existence, then you are here for the wrong reason and would maybe be better off joining another forum.
There are forums out there where most members keep their bettas in smaller containers, betta bowls with plants, etc. They SWEAR by it. And noone there will offer you any argument. I have seen them and decided not to join there, but to join here.
You see, there is something you could call "personal reality". That is what is true FOR YOU. You have your reality and the majority of the members at this forum have their own. Unfortunately in this case the two realities clash. And no amount of insisting is going to make either side change if there is no willingness to learn and change.
You see you are really like a fish in a pool of shark insisting that vegetarianism is the way to go and trying to get the sharks to agree with you. And even if sharks could live on a protein rich vegetarian diet - I am sorry, but these "sharks" here will sooner tear you apart than accept your preaching.
You can decide to stay here and continuously argue to the result of you getting upset and feeling "misunderstood" and the forum members getting all offended by your "obvious stubborness" and fight it out "to the death".
Or you can find a forum where the "personal reality" of the members is maybe closer to yours and you can actually enjoy interacting with them.
I am not saying this because I don't like you or don't wish you to be a member here. But I think for the sake of your own peace of mind and the peace of mind of other forum members here you might want to look for a forum more suited for the kind of fish owner you are.
Or we can just close this particular subject and decide not to bring it up again - simply acknowledging that both sides have irreconcilable views. There is nothing to be gained from continued arguing - other than upset.
This is already the second thread we have managed to turn into an argument on the same subject. If we keep going like this, this is soon all that we will be "talking" (=arguing) about.
So I suggest that you join another forum - or if you really want to stay with us then let's zip up the mouth (both sides of the argument) and call a truce requiring neither party to raise the subject newly.
What do you say?
I will agree with the one point that if Cloud has had her fish for 2.5 years, whatever she is doing cannot be ALL wrong. Sadly I know other people who killed there fish within just a week or two.
But I do have to say - and I don't want to sound mean here, Cloud - but if you have not joined this forum to learn FROM others and see what you can improve in your existence, then you are here for the wrong reason and would maybe be better off joining another forum.
There are forums out there where most members keep their bettas in smaller containers, betta bowls with plants, etc. They SWEAR by it. And noone there will offer you any argument. I have seen them and decided not to join there, but to join here.
You see, there is something you could call "personal reality". That is what is true FOR YOU. You have your reality and the majority of the members at this forum have their own. Unfortunately in this case the two realities clash. And no amount of insisting is going to make either side change if there is no willingness to learn and change.
You see you are really like a fish in a pool of shark insisting that vegetarianism is the way to go and trying to get the sharks to agree with you. And even if sharks could live on a protein rich vegetarian diet - I am sorry, but these "sharks" here will sooner tear you apart than accept your preaching.
You can decide to stay here and continuously argue to the result of you getting upset and feeling "misunderstood" and the forum members getting all offended by your "obvious stubborness" and fight it out "to the death".
Or you can find a forum where the "personal reality" of the members is maybe closer to yours and you can actually enjoy interacting with them.
I am not saying this because I don't like you or don't wish you to be a member here. But I think for the sake of your own peace of mind and the peace of mind of other forum members here you might want to look for a forum more suited for the kind of fish owner you are.
Or we can just close this particular subject and decide not to bring it up again - simply acknowledging that both sides have irreconcilable views. There is nothing to be gained from continued arguing - other than upset.
This is already the second thread we have managed to turn into an argument on the same subject. If we keep going like this, this is soon all that we will be "talking" (=arguing) about.
So I suggest that you join another forum - or if you really want to stay with us then let's zip up the mouth (both sides of the argument) and call a truce requiring neither party to raise the subject newly.
What do you say?