at the end of the day we will always disagree but you are right i just know alot of oscar breeders that havent been out and spent 1500 on a huge 6x2x2 just for the sake of keeping 2 oscars.
so its not really me being a arseole here its what iv seen even on the oscar website 100s of breeders use rio300 and 400.
sorry for being an arse.
I'm sorry if come across as an arse too.
To be fair though, you dont need to spend £1500 on a big tank. Our 6 x 2 x 2 only cost in the region of £100-150. And I'm skint, so so skint, and yet when I bought my oscar and found out he needed a big tank - I saved up and bought one - all in all spending over £600. I wouldn't do it again, I'm not daft enough to pay out for a new one when you can get really decent second hand ones lol - but even so, if I can do that - on benefits with 5 kids - it makes me very sad to hear when other people say they're not going to bother.
It's simple to me - if someone doesn't have a big enough tank - an oscar's not the right fish for them. If they've gone out and got an oscar - they should either provide it with the right sized tank, or return it. Not cram it in a small tank and say "It's only a fish" or "It'll do, the bloke at the LFS keeps 10 in his" or the like.
Do you get me? If I had a 3ft tank or something, and I wanted an oscar, and several people on a fish forum with experience told me my tank wasn't big enough - I either wouldn't bother getting an oscar, or I'd go out and find a way of getting a bigger tank. But instead you see people posting on here asking for advice, and then when it doesn't match what they want to hear - they just go out and do it anyway.
Must admit, it gets saddening and very tiring reading it over and over again - hence me sometimes being short with people now. There's so many sites that with a quick google search will all confirm - 55g is the absolute bare minimum for an oscar, with 75g being more suitable. All those sites saying that, and all those people with experience here saying that, and yet folks still come along after reading all that and say "Well my dad did....blah blah blah".