it has been a week and a half and i have lost one dalmation molly.when people say mature media,what is that?carbon?i have people who i work with who have estabelishd tanks who looked at me like i had three heads when i asked them.these are the same people who said do a 20 water change a week.what is media and where do i put it?
Good job skymortar, you're doing really well considering the situation that happened with your Aunt's gift! Don't worry about meeting other tank owners who think these things sound crazy. When I arrived here at TFF a lot of the posts I saw sounded really interesting, given things I remembered from keeping tanks years ago and having read lots of tropical fish books back then. But even so, once I got to trying out fishless cycling I found myself wondering if I could really trust some of the fascinating but strange advice I was reading. It did not take long though, watching the fish in our family's tank day after day showing signs of vibrant health that was like only a few of the very best times years ago that I finally trusted that I had discovered the real thing: a bunch of aquarists, many of whom have lots and lots of experience and almost all of whom are ready to share their knowledge and advice. They cross-check each other so much in the threads that you're rarely far away from getting some reasonable help. Hope you enjoy it!
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