OK, I'm back. It's all SH's fault for saying that he'd linked to this in th FAQs or I never would have read through it *all* again!
I could have sworn I came back and updated after my tank crashed. Yup, it crashed. All in one afternoon. I don't remember exactly when it was, but we were on our way out of the house one afternoon and Brodie decided to "help" me by feeding the fish. He dumped almost a whole bottle of flake food in and since we were on our way out, I didn't notice til we got home hours later. I lost everything, even the live rock
It was so devastating that I'd poured all that money and time and effort into it and lost it all in one fell swoop. Of course Brodie thought he was just helping, so I couldn't be too mad at him. I didn't have it in me to start all over again so it all went out into the yard (at the base of a tree, thought it would make a nice fertilizer).
FWIW, I did have a skimmer on it - a miniflotor.
So, if this is helpful to anyone then I'm glad I came back to bump it up.
ETA - I never did sell that tank to my friend and I think it was March/April '06 when it crashed. So, I made it to 18mos with no real fatalities (a few corals and inverts, but no fish)
My 46g FW is doing well though