Well, it’s super hard for me to believe.
I mean, there’s got to be an explanation for everything. For example, I’m not saying your Granddaughter is a liar, but kids to tend to have a wild imagination.
The lights going on and off could be this:
“ A poor connection in your main circuit panel.
A more serious cause of your lights turning on and off repeatedly is a problem in the electrical connections in your home. If you've ruled out all of the possible causes listed above, it's time to call an electrician who can properly assess the issue for you.”
The rod in your closet could have fallen at any point, but it fell just then.
Someone “breathing on you” could have been your husband, or a pet, or the air conditioning.
Etc...