Thanks for the advice will keep that in mind!
I think I'm pretty much happy with my fish selection to be honest, as long as the fighter will be happy enough with the others, but that sounds as though it'll be entirely trial and error!
now I've just gotta wait patiently while my tank cycles....
Hello I read your question and really empathised with you, and reminded me of our day we went out to buy our first fish.
My tank has been active for about 7 weeks. We did lots of research, we brought two fish books, one giving in depth descriptions on every fish, their behaviour, water needs, food needs, how many in one tank, community or not. I felt quite confident and picked my fish for the big day. On adive of the experts we left the tank without fish for a while and added the bactinettes and were really excited about getting our fish. The fish we picked out, cardinal tetra's, cory's, simanese fighter, I also wanted a couple of discus. The day came and we went excitedly to the Aquatic centre. I went over to the discus. (I had read that when baby discus are left without an adult, their could be bullying, even to death) There they were, the most beautiful baby discus, there was about five in the tank, two ofwhich were being bullied, I decided to rescue them. The assistant came and absolutely refused to sell them to us. Saying the tank wasnt mature enough., I was very disapointed becuase we had followed all the rules. I said ok, and moved on the tetra's, again the same response. I went through the fish I had my heart set on, and she insisted none of these fish were hardy enough. In the end she agreed to let us have 6 cardinal tetra's, with a 'be it on your own head' warning. They were in the tank for a couple of weeks, we bravely set out again, and once again, 'you cant have that syndrome'. I seriously wondered if I had done the right thing in spending all this money on something which was supposed to be enjoyable.
We managed to buy 4 guppies, which werent on my list! 3 cory's which I thought would stay at the bottom, but seem to enjoy swimming half way up, they are lovely but are quite manic. We havent attemped to buy the fighter because we were told that the guppies would get on its nerves because they are quick swimmers. I dont know if I will ever get my discus! The fish seem very healthy, the tetra's are beautiful but tend to stay in the plants.
I wish you all the best when you go to get your first fish, I hope it will be enjoyable and all that you hoped it will be. ( In my book, the fighter is supposed to be community and very peaceful, only fighting with other males).
Obviously I will listen to the experts because I do not want to hurt any fish, but I do wish they would all get together and attempt to agree with each other!!
You could bring in some water from your tank and get him to test it to prove that your tank is mature enough.