there's a very good reason not to keep DPs in a significantly oversized tank--it'd be exceptionally difficult to see them (that is, if you have the tank planted up properly).
it makes it much more difficult to maintain a somewhat delicate fish if you rarely see them. suppose you had a DP that would only eat snails and ignored any frozen/freeze-dried foods? how would you know if it was getting enough food? suppose you had 3-4 DPs and suddenly one of them was injured? DPs pretty much come in spotty and not-so-spotty, so it can easily prove difficult to distinguish between individuals at a distance. in an exceptionally large tank, one DP out of a group could go missing for several days without the lack being immediately apparent.
as for the comment:
"Probably starved because they were underhouse. Just thought they couldn't possibly be happy if they wouldn't eat."
DPs are notoriously difficult to wean onto dead food. This is a silly and insulting comment. DPs are also famed for their radical temperament change upon sexual maturity. Housing 3 juvie DPs in a 6g is not unreasonable because juvie DPs tend to spend most of their time together anyways. Housing more than one adult male DP in a 6g is definately discouraged, though, because male adults are known to be quite territorial. The transistion between these two behaviors must be carefully accomodated, but that's easy enough provided that one's watching their fish at feeding time.
Look, there are 3 main critera considered when determining minimum tank sizes:
-- a fish needs to be able to turn around
-- you need an appropriately sized volume of water to dilute waste/buffer changes in chemistry
-- you need to accomodate a fish's claim to territory
a DP can turn around in 5g, 5g is generally considered the smallest volume capable of maintaining a stable nitrogen cycle, and well, by the standards of this last one, we're all abusing our fish unless we've got them in tanks the size of our local holding cell.
every DP that gets to live in a 5g is a king compared to the space allocated to our larger finny friends. think of the poor arowanas, most of them condemned to 4'x2'x2' tanks barely as wide as the fish's adult length! and stingrays, who survive in nature by constantly hovering wide sandy bottoms, are generally only proscribed to live in tanks twice their radius--few of them getting even that. hell, even common plecos are getting the rough end of the deal when kept in just 75gs (18" fish in an 18" wide tank). and your Fahaka in a 6'x2'x2'? sounds fairly cramped to me...
why don't we keep these giants in 10 foot tanks? money and space constraints. so we double up on our filtration, on our water changes, and keep them individually.