Thanks for the volume calculator link, I had just assumed that when people talked about how much water thier tanks hold, they actually meant how much water was in it, not how much water the tank held when empty and filled to the brim, I shall change my profile to say 88lt.
As it turns out I can't get a puffer anway, probably wont be able to get the Rams either, which is probably a good thing as my water is quite hard, I've had another look at the list of stat's I've made and I'd actually forgotten to write in that parameter on the Rams! I have a table in Word that I use to fill in the stat's on the fish I like. Wont make that mistake again, I'm sick of people having a go at me!
I will be euthenaising the Neon's in clove oil rather than have them suffer, as I do not want anymore the LFS wont take them back and I have noone to give them to (see other post).
Yes I made a poor choice of tank mates, but I'd like to defend myself, by saying at that time I just didn't know, like a lot of people I thought, tank + water + fish = aquarium! The LFS simply sold me the tank, the fish I pointed at and some food and that was it! Needless to say I haven't been back there, I now go somewhere else. When I got home with everyone I decided I wanted to know a little more about the fish I'd bought and started searching the web, I was horrified when I found out what I'd done, but I managed to keep everyone alive while the tank cycled by doing lots of tests and water changes to keep the amonia and nitrite levels at zero. Luckily enough the tank came with water conditioner, and I heated some of the water prior to putting it in the tank too bring it up to temperature.
I am doing all I can to keep the mis-matched fish I already have happy and I'm trying to make informed choices with stocking it, but I'm finding that most of the responses I get tend to be quite negative which I'm finding disappointing.
As for making sure that my Bee gets enough to eat, I put flakes in the top of the tank, which everyone else goes for straight away, while their busy with the flakes I drop the bloodworms infront of the Bee's cave, that way he gets plenty to eat before the Molly scoffs the lot!
Given the flack I'm getting about the Bee's I wont get anymore. I'll look into the Kribensis. I'm not too sure about the catfish now either.
Nobody's said anything about the Gourami, should I get another one of them maybe?
I apologize for sounding harsh in my post as well. The reason people tend to get aggressive is because most are very passionate about this hobby, and the lives of fish. Sometimes we get a little overly passionate because we want to protect what we believe in and care for, and we don't always take into account that the other person was just a victim of ignorance. There are so many people who ask questons, and then immediately jump into a defensive attitude when they are told not to do something or keep a certain type of fish, that the more experienced fish keeper tends to get aggressive towards them because they don't want the fish to end up being killed due to stubbornness.
As for the volume of your tank, yes, it's true that you technically have less water due to ornaments, etc, but for ease of conversation, as well as consistency, the amount of water in your tank will simply just be the amount your tank can potentially hold when there is only water (no rocks, plants, etc) inside the tank. It would be too much of a hassle to figure out dosing, stocking, etc, if every person was to count up their specific amount of water.
I would also suggest talking to your LFS about taking any unwanted fish. Make sure you let them know you'll give them for free. It's much better than euthanizing them. It's very depressing to euthanize them as well I had to euthanize my little female betta, Spieglein, today due to the incurable Dropsy.