Fish in shop tanks cannot be compared with our tanks. They are overcrowded as the shop expects (hopes) they won't be there long as if they don't sell them they don't make money. Because they are so overcrowded the fish cannot display their normal behaviour and there is no room for any one fish to establish a territory.
In our tanks, the fish are not overcrowded, and as they settle in they start to behave normally for their species. With territorial fish like dwarf gouramis, this means one of them deciding he is top fish and he then tries to chase all the other males from his territory which is the whole tank. The other males cannot leave his territory so he sees that as a challenge to his position which he must defend by continually attacking the other fish, both physically and chemically. The dominant male will secrete aggression pheromones which will stress the other fish even if we don't witness any physical aggression.
The 2 for X deal is common with dwarf gouramis and is meant to be a male and female. Or at least that's what it was originally but as males are more colourful many shops have stopped selling females as "they are plain and boring and no-one buys them".
Even a male/female pair is not a good idea with these fish as males have been known to kill females if he wants to breed and she doesn't. This is why it is recommended to buy 1 male and several females - difficult when they are only sold as pairs.