Since the onl one on that list I have is a Severum, it has to be him. He has loads of personality though, cool fish. I also have a pair of Sajicas who I love. They're similar to Convicts, and they are very responsive; the male will chase my finger if I run it back and forth along the glass (although probably only because he thinks it is trying to get to his babies!!!). I also have a Satanoperca Jurupari, who is quite shy at the moment cos he's just been moved.
I reckon pretty much all the Cichlids I've come across are very responsive to people I think that is what got me into them!!!!