What Do You Think?

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looking at ur video u had a male and female ram, the 1st ram shown in the video is male and the 2nd female. another option u had instead of re-homing ur female ram was to take out the rams into separate bags, rearrange the entire tank and introduce the male first, then add the female. this would help to eliminate established terrorities and hopefully put the two rams on equal footing

another thing i'd check especially with the recent problems with the rasbora would be ur ammonia and nitrite levels as these can spike after swapping substrates

also im not a fan of fake plants. if u ever decided to get real plants things like java fern, anubias, water wisteria, amazon swords and water sprite are all fairly easy plants

yeah i thought i had a male and female.i did just that and it did not work.she was just a little rogue i guess.
i have checked the water.its all fine.thats the first thing i would do in that situation.ammonia 0 - nitrite 0 - nitrate 10.they may have got stressed too much when i was trying to catch them before i done the gravel change.they were fine before and they got like this 30mins after the change.so it must of had something to do with that.