So, i think safe to say, it is either stress behavior or normal. Since last update, i now have 3 fish that are hanging out at the surface, 3 that are hanging out near the surface in the large anubias plant, 6 are trailing at the very bottom, following the corydoras and their pellet, and few other groups here and there in the middle.
Can't say the top surface dwelling ones are always the same, they look like the result of overeating too. They have no problem feeding from surface directly and those three specifically are not pale at all, no sign of illness.
Found other posts in other forums about embers doing this, so i guess we are all ok.
I do need to up the numbers later on, 20 is like nothing in this volume. Also the hatchetfish are not bothered or threatened by the surface dwelling tetras at all.
So far am cautious still, but very much loving my stocking