Colin_T said:
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And you didn't answer my question about how big your first tank was.
How big was the first fish tank you bought and how much money did you have to spend on it?
This is completely irrelevant to the issue, and you know it. When I started keeping fish, there was no internet with forums, there were only a few books...and not very good ones at that. Store advice was taken as "correct." And along the way, I lost all my fish before their time, because I had a 10g tank and put too many fish in it that did not belong there to begin with.
When someone comes on this forum and asks a question, we are not serving them if we make excuses and don't tell the truth. They come here to learn, for guidance, for assistance...in other words, for knowledge. And that is what we give them. But if it is not accurate, we are serving no one but our own ego.
Thank you Byron, your response is my exact point. You and I did exactly the same thing. We were told by the shop that the fish would be ok in that tank. I was even told to drain the tank and wash it all out every week to keep it clean. You might have been told something similar. And yes my first tank was a 10 gallon 2ft long tank too.
The fact is we were not well informed by the shops, who we trusted to give us the correct information to keep the fish alive and well. And unfortunately this still happens today. Either because stores don't hire knowledgeable staff, or because the staff are unwilling to ask questions or give basic advice.
Back when I started out, if you asked the shop owner "how do I keep discus?" they would often walk away and not talk to you. It was a rich man's hobby and if you didn't know how to keep fish, nobody was going to teach you.
Fortunately today, we do have the internet and there are some very good books available at shops and in libraries. And it is good that there are experienced fish keepers around the world, people like yourself, who are willing to help newbies to the hobby. It is people like you Byron, that are doing the job that the staff in the local petshop should be doing. The difference being that you do it for free whereas the petshop staff get paid. I appreciate you helping on here, and I'm sure many other people appreciate it too.
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I started this thread not to discuss the ethics of keeping fish in small tanks, but to try and get people to be a little more tactful when telling new aquarists their tanks are too small for their fish. Yes the newbie has to be told but it should be done in a way that doesn't make them feel completely stupid or like they have committed a crime.