hi spishkey, its sunds like you are doing a great job
my oscar lives with plecs( 3 large), and dosent have a problem with them ( he just nudges them to another bit of the window if he gets fed up) but as far as the feather fin cat fish (long whisker things) i have one in another tank that i own and have seen him to be a bit of a bully to anyone that comes near his bit of wood, tho they are bottom dwellers so that may be enough, but id say if they are all happy ( as they can be) together in the bath, then they should be fine in the tank, but it certainly wont hurt to try , tho about the angelfish, im sorry im really not sure on this one, i would have thought that the oscars would see them as "toys" i have 5 but again in a totally diffrent tank to the oscar and the catfish,be a shame if they had to go, but im not even thinking about putting you on a guilt trip after the amazing job your doing, im afraid it will have to be your call,in my opinion i wouldnt put angels with oscars... but then again others amy disagree.. so fingers crossed they do
your sounding a lot like me, my sons train tables and lots of other stuff had to move out of their spaces to make room for the tanks,,, dont worry you wont feel bad about it for long
the only thing i wouldnt advise doing, is getting shot of anything that you will regrett later-- bum can get sore after sitting on the floor for 3 hours to watch a movie beacause the sofa had to go !!
lots a luv
shelagh
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