This is the best one I could get, but you can see the white dot in it since its so small, but atleast you can probably tell me what I need to know from this picture:
I don't want to stress her out too much because I heard that can make them abort their fry. But I turned off the light, and when I did that the male started attacking her. I could hear rocks flinging everywhere too. I don't know if there's something wrong, or if he just wants the fry?
If she's getting stressed by the male it might be worth putting her in the breeding net,although these nets won't protect them from the mum eating the fry.