Yes you asked about the color of your fish, but that was not in this thread. This thread you asked for general advice. It was given, and you got upset. It was given in a non degrading way, and nobody has been bullying you or saying you are wrong for any way of keeping fish. You have not been put down or discouraged from the hobby by anyone here.
The question about your fish, that you are upset about, was in a different thread. Not this one. It’s a separate conversation, and anyone reading THIS thread, will not answer that question because it’s not the place, and not where that question was asked.
We all want you to succeed in this hobby, and are here to help. Nobody is putting you down