ok have just got back from the fs!
i told him the situation and took a sample of both my ro water and tank water, he tested both of them for me, and both seem fine!
weva or not its true i dont know, not sure how these testin kits work, but he reckons that maybe its been sitting for a while before being sold to me, maybe on his shelf and wherever they are made, and said it maybe caused by that.
he suggested introducing some live rock into my tank soon and continuing the cycle for another week or so, regulary testing the water. but said that everything looks fine.
so just to make sure....guna give the entire kit a dam good shake tonight and try again before doing this! lol