Don't be rude. mm_simb was just trying to give you good advice.
Separate the male and the female. If they aren't in a proper spawning setup, they could do very serious damage to each other, resulting in injury or death in either the male or the female. It's just not a fun thing to come in and find your fish both torn to pieces.
Spawn your VTs if you'd like, but don't be rude to people who are just trying to give you advice. Even if you don't like the advice, don't argue. People don't take kindly to people who don't take advice, and they aren't likely to give you any more if you need it. I'm not trying to be rude, but I thought you were unnecessarily rude to mm_simb, and I'm trying to advise you that completely dismissing someone like that isn't a good practice, especially in a thread where you're asking for advice.