Get a glass of tap water and leave it on the bench. Test the pH when you first do that and 24 hours later.
Take some gravel out of the tank and put it in a bucket of tap water. have a second bucket of tap water next to it. Monitor the pH over a few days. If it goes up, then the gravel is raising the pH. If the pH doesn't change, then put the gravel back in the tank and try other things. You will have to move one item out at a time and check the pH of the water in the bucket each day to see if something is affecting it.
Don't use an acid buffer until you have tested everything in the tank. If there is something in the tank raising the pH, adding an acid buffer will only drop the pH and then it will go back up again the next day, and that is bad for the fish (fluctuating pH).