use my fingernail!? I may hurt her

im nervous haha..
ill try that later i guess after we discuss a little more what might/might not be wrong.
no swollen abdomen or popeye.
she was always the "leader" in the 55, so no, she never got bullied or chased.... SHE was the bully and the chaser!
sometimes when i would put a male (in a seperate container) in for them to see (i do that every so often, mostly for the male) she would cahse the other females away to try and keep the guy for herself haha
she was always very active, flaring all the time, etc..
still is, actually.
shes been in the ten for about a month-ish.
her color has gotten worse.
any more questions?
(Seriously, though, i dont think its just her color changing... it just doesnt look like that to me, but maybe im wrong.)
EDIT: just saw the last two replies made while i was typing. sorry. lol. but seriously.... its just changing color?!?! totally just doesnt look like that to me O_O then again ive never see nit before so yeah hahah