Im Upset

[FWFishLover]

my dad threatened me with that once and actually netted it out and everything............not a great feeling.

 

[GAB99]

well now i see my tank again and theres an oto, she said she put it back in the tank when i left for school (in a steamed mess i might add) but its got ich.

well, things have calmed down a bit but why did the fish have to suffer?

 

[Shelby]

I'm 34 years old and I have 3 friends. Most others are just aquaintences or casual associates. You are lucky if you have 1 good friend. Even if you don't see them much you know you can call them if you need to. Counselors are in schools for a reason. Use them if you are feeling really down. They may be able to put things into perspective for you. It is always easier to stand outside and see what is going on inside by looking through a window. Those that are really close to situation are not going to see things clearly. Kind of like not seeing the forest because of the trees.

I think your mom is nuts and should be examined. I'm a mom and would never do something like that with an animal. Toys on the other hand are free game

As tough as life is when you're a teen always remember that it is what you make it. Try not to take it to heart too much when your parents take it (stress)out on you (unless you are being physically mistreated) Even as an adult life is not all fun and games and they are probably stressed out too. Not everyone knows how to deal with stress in a healthy way. I've been known to snap at my kids when I'm in a mood.

Try to keep your chin up and remember this.. you get to pick their nursing home when they get old... lol I'm kidding. Just trying to make you smile.

I hope you feel better soon and I'm really sorry that your life is tough right now

 

[loraxchick]

doesnt matter how old you are everyone still has problems and stress. EVERYONE does. im going through a tough time too. poor health at the moment and waiting to find out what is going on. thats my biggest problem right now but plenty of other stuff on the table (housing/job etc). but you just keep on keeping on and count your "blessings" as they come-even if its just a pretty bird you saw that day (or a great song, etc.). find comfort in the things that make you smile, and keep on keeping on! that's my philosophy. all the bad, right now, will eventually pass. its nature! so keep your head up and enjoy the things that make you happy
cheers

 

[GAB99]

I'm 34 years old and I have 3 friends. Most others are just aquaintences or casual associates. You are lucky if you have 1 good friend. Even if you don't see them much you know you can call them if you need to. Counselors are in schools for a reason. Use them if you are feeling really down. They may be able to put things into perspective for you. It is always easier to stand outside and see what is going on inside by looking through a window. Those that are really close to situation are not going to see things clearly. Kind of like not seeing the forest because of the trees.

I think your mom is nuts and should be examined. I'm a mom and would never do something like that with an animal. Toys on the other hand are free game

As tough as life is when you're a teen always remember that it is what you make it. Try not to take it to heart too much when your parents take it (stress)out on you (unless you are being physically mistreated) Even as an adult life is not all fun and games and they are probably stressed out too. Not everyone knows how to deal with stress in a healthy way. I've been known to snap at my kids when I'm in a mood.

Try to keep your chin up and remember this.. you get to pick their nursing home when they get old... lol I'm kidding. Just trying to make you smile.

I hope you feel better soon and I'm really sorry that your life is tough right now

doesnt matter how old you are everyone still has problems and stress. EVERYONE does. im going through a tough time too. poor health at the moment and waiting to find out what is going on. thats my biggest problem right now but plenty of other stuff on the table (housing/job etc). but you just keep on keeping on and count your "blessings" as they come-even if its just a pretty bird you saw that day (or a great song, etc.). find comfort in the things that make you smile, and keep on keeping on! that's my philosophy. all the bad, right now, will eventually pass. its nature! so keep your head up and enjoy the things that make you happy
cheers

thanks guys, well the therapist is helping and my dad (who deals with things Much better than my mom) is here at the mo and my moms is in georgia looking at houses. today actually broke my scary long chain of bad happenings and my therapist figured out why my mom is the way she is and she said she'll try to help her deal with better methods. she also told me i had some stuff to work on to help my mom deal with it better so hopefully things will improve (she still hasnt talked to me very much since the incident on tuesday)

btw she has a fish tank

 

[GAB99]

hehe i should probably change my last post, after that i have only seen the therapist 1 other time, i can bet money we stopped going because my parents think there is nothing wrong or they disaggree with her methods, which is typical.

however a completedley new situation has arisen and im tormented by it, its been bothering me day after day it haunts my dreams and really could use someone to help me out who is good with this sort of stuff as i want to keep this semi-private

i dont know what a typical teenage crisis is but i hope mine is that so i can deal with it lol

it involves friends, social skills, and relationships

 

[chrisbassist]

My inbox is always open, but I'm sure there are others here who are better qualified...

I can upset people more because I can be a little blunt, so even though you can msg me if you like, maybe you should wait for someone else..... as I don't want to upset anyone.

I o however wish you luck with whatever it is that's bothering you. most of these things can be worked out pretty quickly, and are usually not as bad as you feel they are (but sometimes...........) hope it gets sorted soon dude

 

[GAB99]

My inbox is always open, but I'm sure there are others here who are better qualified...

I can upset people more because I can be a little blunt, so even though you can msg me if you like, maybe you should wait for someone else..... as I don't want to upset anyone.

I o however wish you luck with whatever it is that's bothering you. most of these things can be worked out pretty quickly, and are usually not as bad as you feel they are (but sometimes...........) hope it gets sorted soon dude

thanks