It is very possible for ich to take 2-3 weeks after the fish being infected to appear as white spots on the skin. So perfectly healthy fish in the shop could be already diseased.
As for "dad" dying, actually ich can settle in the gills instead as well and not be visible so "dad" may have suffocated because of the parasite too. Was he heavy breathing looking before dying?
By the time you see spots on the fish the parasites have been "feeding off" the fish for a long time, depending on temperature as well it could be from a few days to weeks. Seeing you keep your fish at 23 degrees makes sense with the time frame of you seeing the spots.
Now, talking from experience as well, long before spots appear the fish already show signs of stress like flashing, hiding, rapid breathing, even loss of appetite and losing weight.
Have you noticed any of this before the spots. Fish may have been hiding not because of the new enviroment but there were sick already maybe?
And Ich is not a virus at the end of the day so healthy and not stressed fish should not get it even if exposed to it.
There is another type of "ich" looking like disease that is caused by tetrahymena instead which will cause a rapid wipe out as once fish are showing the spots it's too late as normally it had damaged their internal organs by then. This one could be resistant to salt and heat, some strains of ich are too.