Let me start by saying I have been using an RO/DI unit for a tank with altum angels for a number of years. So my first observation is that there is a difference between RO water and RO/DI water. The latter is purer. The DI resin remove ions. This would include ammonium (NH4+) the + means it has a positive charge. Plants love this form of ammonia whereas the bacteria prefer NH3 ammonia. Rhings which hage a charge, either positive or negative , is an Ion and will not be filtered out by an RO membrane.
Things we know about in our tank that are ions would include nitrite and nitrate and plants will use nitrate when ammonium, or its equivalent, is not available. Consider what determines the pH of our water:
The outcome of a pH-measurement is determined by a consideration between the number of H+ ions and the number of hydroxide (OH-) ions. When the number of H+ ions equals the number of OH- ions, the water is neutral. It will than have a pH of about 7.
https://www.lenntech.com/ph-and-alkalinity.htm
It is all about the ions. My unit removes ions, an RO unit alone does not. I would never keep any fish in 100% water from my RO/DI unit with nothing added back.
What this means is when I make my water and I test it for conductivity/TDS right away, I get a readin6 pretty much of 0. Testing RO it gives me a TDS reading of 10. (I intuit the ppm of TDS better than the microsiemens of conductivity).
So, water with ions in it is good for the plants and means it is not quite pure water.
I mix my RO/DI with my tap 11/9. My tap is 83 ppm TDS and pH 7.0. I keep the tank at a target of 6.0 and TDS in the 60s ppm. The water is stained and has no live plants. This make things easier for me. I do add rooibos to the water as well as alder cones and catappa leaves. Sometime I use muriatic acid to get the pH as low as I need it in the changing water. The tank pH tends to drift towards 6.5 between water changes.
I do add equilibrium to my planted tanks which have many assassin snails and amano shrimp as well as being heavily planted. Without the Equilibrium the plants and crustaceans are short of what they need.
As for being able to use presoftened water year round very easily you need to have two things. The first if the phone number of a local plumber and the second is the miney to pay then to put a faucet on the incoming line inside the house before the ssoftener. Conssider a garden hose type faucet so you can connect a hose to it with ease if you want.
Consider that fish have bones and then what its required to make bones and for them to grow. If you are curious about what your fish need and must get in adequate supply either from their diet and/or the water. One way or the other certain nutrients/mnerals/lements must be available for fish. These may be in for ot the water and may easily be transfered between them in some cases.
Then further consider what plants require as well, and it should be clear that it is impossible for either to live in pure water, i.e. only Hydrogen and Oxygen, for any length of time. At the very least there will be other dissolved gasses as well. CO2 will get into the water almost as soon as it comes out of an Ro or RO/DI unit into the open air.