jollysue
Fish Connoisseur
I think that catsmakemebark is fine starting this thread. She was told by at least three people to do it. She is new to the forum and has opinions based on her prior experience. This thread is a good place for her to get to know other frequenters of this Betta forum. Clearly the general Betta keeping veiw point at TFF is different from the one at other forums she has frequented.
If it is reasonable for us to ask her to be tolerant, then I think she can expect the same tolerance from us.
Honest discussions are great ways to learn if people can let their guard down and not feel like they have to defend their integrety.
Clearly catsmakemebark is reading the posts, because she read mine, which was v-e-r-y l-o-n-g.
There is something called the dialectic. It is used as a learning technique. People with very different views take different positions and struggle to understand each other. It is used in the highest education by scientists and in the law. I myself do not always change my mind after a good discussion, but they will usually make me think. But I always understand more when people are patient enough to help me understand them as well as trying to understand me. Learning is not an argumnent, but it may well be a debate.
I hope this will be accepted with grace: I would not like to be spoken to as though I were a five-year-old in day care.
If it is reasonable for us to ask her to be tolerant, then I think she can expect the same tolerance from us.
Honest discussions are great ways to learn if people can let their guard down and not feel like they have to defend their integrety.
Clearly catsmakemebark is reading the posts, because she read mine, which was v-e-r-y l-o-n-g.
There is something called the dialectic. It is used as a learning technique. People with very different views take different positions and struggle to understand each other. It is used in the highest education by scientists and in the law. I myself do not always change my mind after a good discussion, but they will usually make me think. But I always understand more when people are patient enough to help me understand them as well as trying to understand me. Learning is not an argumnent, but it may well be a debate.
I hope this will be accepted with grace: I would not like to be spoken to as though I were a five-year-old in day care.