I am basically on my own. My wife pays no attention to the fish except to ask me to set up a guppy tank for her. She never looks at the guppies much and I do all the care but she says they are hers. My kids are all out on their own and 2 of the 3 of them have their own tanks but they do not live close enough for us to support each other much. I suppose if they were asked what got them started it would go something like "We had fish in the house when I was growing up and ..." Both of them have branched into cichlids so they have very different fish to what I have. My third child had fish for a while and is talking about getting back into them. My granddaughter was fascinated by my tanks when they last visited.