i would not totally agree with your comments Athena, however each to their own.
I think when bubbles hit the surface it does a similar job as the filter, in that it agitates the surface. I think you will find that harmful gasses are usually contained in sand 'as an example', are normally areas that or not moved or disturbed, hence why gas is allowed to build up in the first place, therefore using air stones you create movement in the water, which surely has to be a good thing. I have many areas in my tank, whereby without the airstones, water could become stagnant and/or debris would rot or remain in situe, for example, in or behind caves or even just rocks. Having airstones in those areas, it creates uplift, movement and water cycling through certain areas, all of which IMO has to be a good thing.
i also agree with spish in that having airpumps do give an extra boost or oxygen, and that the fish do get used to it, ive heard and seen this myself.
im not saying people should use airstones, i am just giving my view as what i do and my feelings on the matter, im sure many people dont use airstones and fine all is well, but my view is that i shall continue to use them as i do believe they offer benefits.
Plus, just out of curiousity, what would people do if they are running one filter and it packs up over night? you would potentially lose your fish - whereas with an air pump, you wouldnt have to worry